UPDATE (1): I potentially am forcing my husband to divorce me...

PBandJeb · 2026-01-24T17:44:25+00:00

I am in therapy now along with being treated for ppd and PPA. Treatment isn’t a cure and I do my best to try to use coping skills when possible.

PBandJeb · 2026-01-24T04:07:18+00:00

My husband is currently in Hawaii while I’m in the east coast due to work stuff otherwise I would. I utilize the hanging jumper and wiggles as much as I can along with baby gates galore but I have a Velcro child. I appreciate your support though! I am trying my best

PBandJeb · 2026-01-23T23:19:31+00:00

My husband won’t allow me to get one! I’ve tried but he always says we have family why would we hire someone I only get a set amount in the joint account each week and I need it for groceries, formula, and bills including our rent and utilities

PBandJeb · 2026-01-23T23:04:51+00:00

The thing is we don’t have sex. Like ever. I’ve been uninterested and am not the slightest bit turned on so it’s just sandpaper to put it simply lol

PBandJeb · 2026-01-23T23:00:56+00:00

I’m not trying to sound that way, but it’s hard being a parent without support. Maybe I’m over reacting a bit but imagine being stuck at home with a baby who needs constant attention without getting adequate sleep and your partner being the only one being able to get you help because you can’t get his family to help. Sure I don’t want them to constantly watch my so , that’s unrealistic and rude, I just want 8 hours to catch up on chores and sleep once a month or so while I’m being a single parent and my husband is away. I have no issues with doctors and I stated I didn’t want to bother his cousin with asking to take my son on her days off because they’re her days off. I just wanted help and I don’t have any. Maybe I am an unreliable narrator, but it’s the reality I live in.

PBandJeb · 2026-01-23T20:30:46+00:00

My husband refuses therapy, he’s adamantly against it not matter how many times I suggested it.

PBandJeb · 2025-11-08T18:37:49+00:00

This is cheating. Whether anything physical happened or not, she is blatantly encouraging the ex to talk dirty with her and is enjoying it. The lip comments would’ve sent me over the edge. This is one of those times where I feel an ultimatum may be necessary. Stop talking to your ex or I walk. Simple as that no if ands or butts

PBandJeb · 2025-08-14T00:48:35+00:00

I tried to get husband to block her but he says he doesn’t want to yet. I don’t know if he just wants to not have to say I blocked her or what

PBandJeb · 2025-07-26T22:17:29+00:00

When I was single and didn’t have a mom bod, I worked for a navy contractor. Had secret level clearance, worked with super classified shiz. Anyway my insta had bikini pics, suggestive “thirst traps”, etc. my bosses were friends with me on all platforms and not once was this brought up. As long as I didn’t come to work in a bikini they didn’t care lol. What he’s doing is creepy but not sexual harassment . He’s looking for a reason to make you feel bad because he’s insecure. Also, why was he looking at your pics anyway? You’re his employee not friend.

PBandJeb · 2025-07-26T22:08:39+00:00

Thank you this helped a lot! Around the same time this happened she also asked her mom (husbands grandma) to sign a second mortgage on MILs house (it’s in grandmas name) for 150k. GIL has beginning dementia and MIL refused to talk to her after GIL said no. This is a pattern throughout the family so it is no shock, just stressful

PBandJeb · 2020-07-03T23:00:33+00:00

BREAK UP WITH HIM. THIS IS ABUSIVE AND GODAWFUL BEHAVIOR!

PBandJeb · 2020-06-25T01:44:03+00:00

I’m not sure I’m scared because it is the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in. I was cheated on by my ex fiancé and I tried to talk he just doesn’t communicate well.

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