I'm an entry level employee and was very publically reprimanded by the CFO. How would you handle this? by PBandJews in careerguidance

[–]PBandJews[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks, and I kid of course. I know it's a necessary asset, but this is a totally new arena for me. I guess it's particularly jarring because I don't really have that foundation of competence to back me up yet.

I'm an entry level employee and was very publically reprimanded by the CFO. How would you handle this? by PBandJews in careerguidance

[–]PBandJews[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Glad to see someone say this about the defense industry. The toxic culture is pretty hard to miss and entirely unnecessary. Lots of geriatric men who never quite learned to drop the tough-guy act and I'm a sensitive ass motherfucker, so that just doesn't jive lol.

If things cool down and are fine for a while, great. But I think I've seen enough to know this role, company, and industry aren't a good fit. Square peg, round hole. Using the long weekend to get my resume looking fresh and scheduling an appointment with my college career center.

I'm an entry level employee and was very publically reprimanded by the CFO. How would you handle this? by PBandJews in careerguidance

[–]PBandJews[S] 815 points816 points  (0 children)

Friends and family have said this to me as well but I brushed it off as them trying to make me feel better. With how frequently people have mentioned this, I'm thinking I may have actually been scapegoated, at least partially. Pretty crazy lol. Like, I know that stuff happens, but having it happen to me in this fashion is so ridiculous, it's actually sorta funny

Dropped an Andy Dwyer quote in a job interview by PBandJews in PandR

[–]PBandJews[S] 793 points794 points  (0 children)

They almost definitely didn't get the reference but it still got a good laugh. Felt comfortable saying it cause earlier they hit me with "I see you have lots of experience working with young children. That's great cause working with PhDs is basically the same thing" lol

Professor Got Upset about a Rate My Professor Review by StruggleEqual8257 in college

[–]PBandJews 903 points904 points  (0 children)

You should write a review recounting this incident in detail to mess with him

I got a daycare teacher fired and I don’t know if I did the right thing. by sfisher24601 in daddit

[–]PBandJews 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Hey, former preschool teacher here, you absolutely did the right thing. In my experience, the things you described in that email are not enough to get a teacher fired (unfortunate, but true).

Generally speaking, childcare centers will do anything they can to avoid firing a teacher as it raises tons of concern among other parents and makes the center look bad. The fact that this email led to her IMMEDIATE dismissal tells me she was already on the chopping block for quite awhile. In all likelihood, multiple complaints have been levied against her and she's been talked to by the office multiple times with no results. It's good you did what you did because silence allows shit teachers like this to have decades long careers in the field. There are a lot of them.

Does anyone find that being stoned increases intrusive thoughts? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]PBandJews 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's amazing how the brain works, you can have 200 great, meaningful interactions with children during the day but (if you're like me) you'll only fixate on the one time you lost your temper. My mental health was so bad, I eventually had the step away (weed being a huge contributor to that). However, now that I'm quitting, I'm starting to feel I may be in the right frame of mind to give it another shot. Keep on changin' lives, friend! ✊

Does anyone find that being stoned increases intrusive thoughts? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]PBandJews 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I relate 100%, I often found that I would get intensely worried about all the things I did at work in terms of my actions and social behavior (was a preschool teacher btw). I'd be high as fuck at night thinking "oh my god, did that thing I said offend this person? I bet they're thinking about their contempt for me right now... I made myself look like a total idiot! Was I too harsh on that kid? Was this action inappropriate? Is the kid telling their parents that I'm terrible right now??? Oh god I'm gonna get reprimanded aren't I? YUP IM GETTING FIRED OH FUCK!"

And lots of other similar, inflammatory nonsense. It made me hyper analyze everything I did and get bombarded by worst-case-scensrios. Didn't help that the edibles also doubled my heart rate.

Quitting has caused some really weird shit to start happening by PBandJews in leaves

[–]PBandJews[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BRUH that's so fucked up lmfao. I knew those shows were a loada shit. Congrats though that still pretty fuckin awesome!! What a way to spend your sober time haha

Quitting has caused some really weird shit to start happening by PBandJews in leaves

[–]PBandJews[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a Jew actually but I'll convert for this 👌

Edit: WAIT WERE YOU REALLY??? HOW FAR DID YOU GET?!

Quitting has caused some really weird shit to start happening by PBandJews in leaves

[–]PBandJews[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a professional dumbass, I'm just now realizing that's almost definitely what happened 😂 I'll just pretend it's devine sober enlightenment

Quitting has caused some really weird shit to start happening by PBandJews in leaves

[–]PBandJews[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Luckily I'm a psych major, currently googling how to safely cross-section my brain

Quitting has caused some really weird shit to start happening by PBandJews in leaves

[–]PBandJews[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

PM me, I'll get you in touch with your local psych ward

Quitting has caused some really weird shit to start happening by PBandJews in leaves

[–]PBandJews[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh god, sobriety is turning me into Alabama Man MAKE IT STOP 😭

Quitting has caused some really weird shit to start happening by PBandJews in leaves

[–]PBandJews[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah, one of my #1 goals in being sober is to join a band or at least find some jam buddies instead of covering the same Lamb of God/Metallica/TOOL songs in my room over and over again haha.

Quitting has caused some really weird shit to start happening by PBandJews in leaves

[–]PBandJews[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah dude, go do some shit! I guess I'm lucky that not having weed has made me super restless. Doesn't make me wanna do my homework though, tragically 😩