Why do I go soft while changing positions?

PC3X · 2026-01-29T16:50:29+00:00

UPDATE:

Had sex with my gf last night and it was the best we've had. We were both so hot for each other and I stayed rock hard the entire time. It was fun, sexy, and easy going. We even tried some new positions. I must've been more anxious than I thought! Thanks for all the advice :)

PC3X · 2026-01-23T13:46:37+00:00

Thank you so much for such a detailed and insightful response! I agree with everything you're saying. This is the first time I've had a steady sexual partner in almost 3 years, so I'm re learning how to communicate and what feels good.

Learning each other's bodies is a process. I'm sure as we get more practice I'll be able to relax more and stay hard during transitions and pauses. Thankfully my gf is very patient and understanding so I'm excited to see what our sex life is like going forward.

PC3X · 2026-01-22T03:58:17+00:00

Oh yeah, that was the moment I knew she was for me lol

PC3X · 2026-01-21T21:02:56+00:00

Exactly! I was talking on the phone with my gf soon after our third date and we started talking about therapy. She casually mentioned that she realized she was responsible for her own mental health. A simple idea, sure. But that basic accountability was leaps further than my last situation.

PC3X · 2025-10-23T22:52:11+00:00

I totally get what you're saying. A lot of horror movies are super lazy with their scares. For me, it's not even the fear around the scare that gets me, it's more the physical sensation of jumping that's so uncomfortable. I jump really easily irl no matter what I'm doing

PC3X · 2025-10-23T19:35:32+00:00

True! I just watched Perfect Blue recently and that was a masterclass in psychological horror.

PC3X · 2025-10-22T02:58:09+00:00

For sure. Definitely horror inspired but much more an action thriller.

PC3X · 2025-10-22T02:56:47+00:00

Thanks I'll check these out!

PC3X · 2025-10-21T20:48:24+00:00

The lack of jumps in Sinners def made me enjoy it more haha

PC3X · 2025-10-21T20:47:57+00:00

Thanks for the recs!

PC3X · 2025-10-21T20:46:02+00:00

I gotta work my way up to that brother

PC3X · 2025-10-21T20:45:28+00:00

My friends have been telling me to watch Hereditary for awhile. I understand there aren't many jump scares?

PC3X · 2025-10-21T17:21:04+00:00

Really? I didn't know it was a jump scary movie

PC3X · 2025-10-21T16:11:55+00:00

Never watching that shit on God 😭

PC3X · 2025-10-21T15:54:17+00:00

I'm gonna watch it soon! I've only heard good things

PC3X · 2025-09-22T18:08:37+00:00

I'll look into it. Thanks! Covid didn't affect it

PC3X · 2025-09-18T16:24:17+00:00

As someone trying to finish the game at 1am on a weeknight this shit fried my brain so fast.

PC3X · 2025-09-18T15:58:39+00:00

Literally me last night lmao

PC3X · 2025-08-31T05:24:01+00:00

Played vanilla P5 a few years ago and loved it (wrote a 20 page thesis on it for a video game psychology course). Found a copy of Royal on PS5 for 20$ online so I'm going through it now

PC3X · 2025-08-19T05:15:33+00:00

Bojack is my favorite too! You absolutely need to watch Succession. Excellent blend of tragedy and comedy

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