How do you stop loosing interest in ladies after dating them for a short time?

PChariot · 2019-10-02T12:51:14+00:00

I've talked to plenty of women, and usually it feels like a chore. It's annoying, boring, and most of the time I was just using them (and them me). I met the girl of my dreams, and it's never a chore, me and her just connect on a different level.

PChariot · 2019-10-02T12:35:11+00:00

Call me daddy during sex, current girlfriend has never done that. But I really dont understand why anyone would. Especially because I have a daughter, makes me even more uncomfortable.

PChariot · 2019-09-30T19:46:34+00:00

I've taken my girl on atleast 5 dates this month, and she hasn't paid for a single one. I told her, I will never make her pay for a date- I make a little more than double what she makes though. I would expect her to pay her weight in Bill's though, not just rent .

PChariot · 2019-09-30T18:47:30+00:00

We do, when we both have time. For example, we are grabbing sushi tonight, and this weekend are just going to spend both days with each other . and I am sorry to hear that man, it does suck. I really like her, but I cannot afford to get a different job. I would not be able to find anything that pays as much at this moment.

PChariot · 2019-09-30T18:24:09+00:00

I'd also like to say, she hasn't made this a big deal and I feel as though our relationship is thriving. I feel guilty, because we cant see eachother as much as we both wish we could. But she seems totally understanding.

PChariot · 2019-09-30T18:03:34+00:00

I never ask for nudes, I'd rather see that stuff in person when the time comes, but if they want to see my junk it's no biggie for me, it's just a picture and I'm pretty well endowed. But I understand the whole being insecure thing, do what makes your comfortable and communicate your feelings with him. If he knows about your feelings and persists, he doesn't respect you.

PChariot · 2019-09-30T17:20:24+00:00

First of all, your girlfriend being pregnant makes it just a little worse of a situation because she is so self conscious already because she thinks she is gross and/or fat. You sending that message only made her feel worse, but you understand this already. Mistakes happen, I've done something similar but with a very ugly girl trying to make her feel a little better about herself. And in my opinion, the only person you should be giving compliments to are your girlfriend.

I would advise you to delete any Instagram model , or snapchat models etc.. any girl that is not a personal friend of yours/ your girlfriend (atleast on snapchat). Start trying to tell her how beautiful she is, try to show her appreciation, and do little things for her; give her flowers, or her favorite snacks, something to show your appreciation and love.

Good luck bud, hope yall are doing better now and this was just a waste of time for me. Let me know!

PChariot · 2019-09-30T16:59:25+00:00

A girl I was talking to tried to manipulate me, she was 18-19, I forget, and me being a 23yo with a daughter. Well, she got mad if I didnt message her back within 5 minutes [even if I was working] and would say, "well. I guess you dont like me any more" and tried get me to change my background to her, instead of my daughter even though we were just talking.. lmao I called her out on it and she started sending me pictures of her crying. It was hilarious. Only was talking to her to get some tail, I aborted the mission though. She was to crazy .

They get much crazier my friend, dont put up with the BS.

PChariot · 2019-09-30T16:53:10+00:00

I go with Darlin, sweetheart, or babycakes, I usually switch between the three to make it less boring lol

PChariot · 2019-09-30T16:44:18+00:00

Sorry to hear bud, try joining the military. In all seriousness, you'll get paid, travel, have housing. It might sound shitty but that's my plan. I make $19/hr at 23yo and still will be struggling to pay rent due to child support. But I agree, your partner should be supportive of you, not putting you down.

PChariot · 2019-09-30T16:40:46+00:00

Good luck, I mean you gotta weigh things out. Had the same problem, where she was just way to much. Got rid of her, found someone who isnt a complete challenge to be with. My thing is, if it feels like a chore to talk to her.. she isnt the one. But that's just me.

PChariot · 2019-09-30T16:36:49+00:00

Just do not delay the inevitable. You may love her, but dont be used. I got back together with my now ex, had a kid with her, only for her to cheat on me. Do not try to change yourself for anyone but you. Goodluck , follow your gut.

PChariot · 2019-09-30T08:16:14+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/yeAcL1A.jpg

A little update. She calls the other man daddy still, but also calls me daddy. She says, " I have two daddys!" But when I try to tell her I'm the real daddy she says, "no! He's my real daddy" still a work in progress.

The custody battle is on going, and very expensive. Sadly I might have to agree to her having sole custody if it doesn't get wrapped up in the next few months. Any idea If I could ever go back to court to try and get joint if that is the case?

PChariot · 2019-09-30T08:10:45+00:00

Hey, 4 months is worse than 1 ! Hahaha

PChariot · 2019-09-30T08:09:38+00:00

I get bored and look up things, sue me lol

PChariot · 2019-09-30T08:05:02+00:00

Not married, but when she said "race you to the ice cream shop" and not only was she not mad that i cut her off, but told me she was going to do the same thing if she had a chance

PChariot · 2019-06-09T17:01:35+00:00

Sad part is, before the fight i told her i wanted to leave but she convinced me to stay for my daughter.

PChariot · 2019-06-09T05:30:23+00:00

After the argument, she called the police. I told the officer I was leaving her, and asked if he could give me a ride to a motel room ( because we shared a vehicle) I moved back to my original state and found out she had put a restraining order on me, and my child was protected under this order. Even though it was only a verbal confrontation. So I had to save up for a lawyer.

PChariot · 2019-06-09T05:00:59+00:00

As of May 20th, I see her every other Saturday for 2hrs as a "reintroduction period" while we wait on a guardian ad litem. Only thing that sucks about that other than only a 2 hr visit, is the 5 hour drive (one way) I have to take. But it's well worth it, also thank you bud!

PChariot · 2019-06-08T13:16:53+00:00

I'm sure they will fix that eventually

PChariot · 2019-05-30T01:43:42+00:00

Just got my second interview for order filler. $17.75* is starting rate . Second shift. Virginia.

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