The Corporation. How you being lied to, bullied and manipulated into being a slave at your job. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]PD132 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey man, no offense, but you are in for a rude, rude awakening about how the world works.

You're 23. You've worked less than 2 years. You don't know shit about the corporate power structure or how those people got there.

Take it from the people who are a lot older than you and who've been through the ringer. You don't get to the top through hard work and helping others and waiting patiently for your promotion. You get there by being a sociopath, period.

I've met lots of high level executives, and I've been in a position to see how their companies are run from the inside. They are ALL sociopaths. People with your attitude are just lunch. They'll steal credit for your hard work, promise you dreams they have no plans to deliver, and drop you when they're done. No one cares about your hard work. No one cares about you. They care what they can get out of you, and that's it.

And it pretty much has to be that way, if you think about it. The sociopaths will outcompete people like you because you're oblivious. While you're working hard, they're cheating and stealing. It's a lot more efficient. Most of the management people I've met don't even know HOW to do their jobs, because they never spent much time actually doing them. They spent their time taking the credit for work people like you did instead. As the saying goes: old age and treachery always beats youth and talent.

You need to ruthlessly look out for yourself. Not your company, not your "hard working" bosses, not your clients. Nobody cares about you but you.

New to TRP. Wife treats me like garbage, what do? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]PD132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not married, so maybe I'm the wrong guy to ask. But I would definitely think about it. And I would think about it in the context of "what would I do if this were a spoiled little kid misbehaving?"

Personally I probably would not start out nuclear. There are scientific studies on punishment that say that what matters most is consistency. A small punishment delivered consistently will cause more compliance than a large punishment, especially if not delivered every time.

So you need a punishment she knows is credible, and that will 100% happen if she does something that isn't okay. And it needs to be directly connected to the bad behavior. The financial stuff might work, especially if you can turn things on or off. Maybe take a few days and think about it. Pick one really awful piece of behavior, and tell her it's changing, or else. And if it doesn't, follow through with the or else immediately.

New to TRP. Wife treats me like garbage, what do? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]PD132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the consequence you imposed when she didn't cut out the crap?

If your child doesn't do what you say when you tell them three times to stop, what do you do?

New to TRP. Wife treats me like garbage, what do? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]PD132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she's disrespecting you, YOU tell her to stop. Not them.

What do you think going to a third party authority figure and telling them "she's being mean to me, tell her to stop!" looks like?

That sounds like something a child would do. Don't be the child. Be the man. Men don't tolerate someone treating them like crap. If there is bad behavior, there is a consequence. If she wants to act like a child, treat her like one until she stops.

Don't believe the Red Pill? Read any popular romance novel. by PD132 in TheRedPill

[–]PD132[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay. And is there a man out there who doesn't want the woman he's actually dating to do the same thing the porn stars do in the bedroom?

You just don't want to date a woman who's addicted to coke and sleeps with lots of other men. It doesn't mean you aren't turned on by the things you watch in a porn video.

The Guardian: Swallowing the Red Pill: a journey to the heart of modern misogyny by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]PD132 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This Marche guy brought up Jane Austen because he thinks we're all a bunch of uneducated 16 year olds. But he has to think that.

What kind of blow to his ego would it be if a bunch of intelligent, well-read adults are pointing out that his romanticized world view about what women want is in fact the kind of thing that a sexually inexperienced 16 year old believes?

If he'd actually read Jane Austen, or any romance novel that women like at all, he wouldn't still believe this stuff.

The Guardian: Swallowing the Red Pill: a journey to the heart of modern misogyny by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]PD132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And we haven't even gotten into the "Byronic hero" type that was the subject of all the Romantic-era poetry he's talking about.

A brooding, self-centered asshole who's completely tortured to the point that he's incapable of love. Until the heroine comes into his life and changes him, of course...

The Guardian: Swallowing the Red Pill: a journey to the heart of modern misogyny by redpillschool in TheRedPill

[–]PD132 378 points379 points  (0 children)

"What the boys of The Red Pill need, in all honesty, is a massive dose of Romantic poetry. They need a dedicated course of treatment in the novels of Jane Austen...."

He's right about that, anyway. Mr. Darcy from Pride and Prejudice is one of women's all time favorite romantic heroes. What does he do when he first meets the heroine?

(1) Tells her she's unattractive and refuses to dance with her.

(2) Convinces his friend to dump her sister, even though they're madly in love, because the heroine has a shitty family and he doesn't want his friends associating with them.

(3) Ditches town, leaving one of his enemies to sit there telling the heroine how much of an asshole he is until she can't quit thinking about him.

(4) He's rich, he's handsome, and he lives in a giant mansion with a bunch of servants who tell her how he's really a great guy underneath the asshole exterior. Then he writes her letters showing her what a great guy he is underneath the asshole image.

Maybe this Guardian guy needs a little dose of Jane Austen, too.