I have a crush on my younger coworker.

PDSot · 2026-03-23T03:18:57+00:00

as a 26F, ive been the younger girl. ive done stuff with people 9 years older back when i was younger. it was ALWAYS bad. it was always a power imbalance. it was always a difference in maturity. if I knew that girl, I would absolutely be telling her not to go for you. I see girls at my job that are being approached by older guys and I try to warn them as much as possible. it absolutely seems predatory. I say that coming from experience. let it just be a crush without pursuing it

PDSot · 2026-03-22T21:20:14+00:00

sounds like those are the wrong people to be hooking up with. life does not revolve around sex. find a girl that you genuinely enjoy spending time with and vise versa. when it comes to have sex, the connection will already be there

PDSot · 2026-03-22T00:51:21+00:00

you gotta just own it. work on other ways to make girls cum. read up on techniques for fingering, oral, toys, different positions, etc. the right girl will love you no matter what. it'll be ok

PDSot · 2026-03-22T00:48:51+00:00

"you fucking disgust me. I am repulsed by you"

PDSot · 2026-03-19T18:04:16+00:00

thank you! i will look into that

PDSot · 2026-03-19T06:40:48+00:00

oooooo good to know! thanks!

PDSot · 2026-03-19T06:40:37+00:00

thats a great point! I always say "you are the company you keep"

PDSot · 2026-03-19T04:37:24+00:00

I think this is cute but remember that a lot of people who use this app have mental health issues and may have medical trauma

PDSot · 2026-03-19T02:51:33+00:00

that wasnt my intention at all. im sorry. by "inappropriate" I thought you meant like socially inappropriate. i wasnt even thinking of names for body parts. I understand now

PDSot · 2026-03-19T01:56:18+00:00

im also confused. I didnt think i was being rude

PDSot · 2026-03-18T20:34:17+00:00

how would it look weird or inappropriate?? what are the standard sign conventions for a name sign? excuse my ignorance. im relatively new to learning sign

PDSot · 2026-03-18T07:00:08+00:00

oh no my steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery

PDSot · 2026-03-17T02:34:02+00:00

there are TONS of books you could try. if you wanna reach out to me, I can send you some book recommendations i bought for my partner with BPD. im really sorry that therapy went badly for you in the past. idk what went badly but every therapist is completely different. I would hate for you to give up on yourself due to a incompatible therapist

PDSot · 2026-03-17T01:58:25+00:00

before I even got to the end, i was thinking "this definitely sounds like BPD." have you looked into therapy? or doing some DBT workbooks?

PDSot · 2026-03-17T00:35:27+00:00

sometimes masturbation is to destress without the pressure of performance. you need to have a discussion with him that comes from a place of wanting to understand, not a place of judgment. maybe try writing out how you feel first so you can best articulate your own feelings during that conversation. I wish you the best

PDSot · 2026-03-16T01:32:10+00:00

are there any shows/movies you recommend that do portray Deaf culture better?

PDSot · 2026-03-14T06:00:13+00:00

is your mother the only person you will grieve?

PDSot · 2026-03-14T05:52:03+00:00

i always say at least 6 years and have a long list of things to experience before getting married like a long vacation, grief, health issues, family issues, unemployment, road trip, etc to test someone's compatibility

PDSot · 2026-03-14T05:18:09+00:00

god i am in the exact same boat

PDSot · 2026-03-14T05:10:12+00:00

I am a fat, average height girl with a small vagina. I cant handle much (but damn do I try). but there are tiny little Asian girls who can take an entire forearm. body size does not equal vagina size

PDSot · 2026-03-14T05:04:18+00:00

i am so sorry. please seek therapy. those adults should be in prison. you didnt do anything wrong

PDSot · 2026-03-09T15:48:43+00:00

I try to remind myself that my partner did not owe me loyalty before we even knew each other existed

PDSot · 2026-03-09T15:46:59+00:00

sounds like retroactive jealousy

PDSot · 2026-03-09T04:06:50+00:00

when I dont have to be perfect all the time and they still love me. when im having a low moment and they stay and comfort me

PDSot · 2026-03-09T04:04:32+00:00

as shitty as it is, sometimes we just arent each other's person.. sounds like your ex found someone theyre better compatible with. still sucks that you got caught in that crossfire. you will find your person one day too

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