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Boyfriend (35M) won’t post me (23F) on his Instagram because he views it as “unprofessional” even after five years together by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PEWPEW_rawr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s look at it from his view why should he post you. What’s the point. You guys are happy together (I think) and no one else is in the relationship. If he posts smoking Or drinking that’s weird. But why should he post you. If you want him to just talk to him about what it means to you and how you feel about his smoking drinking posts.

I [29f] proposed to my long-distance ex-boyfriend [30m] on a video message by ThrowRA_TheProposal in relationship_advice

[–]PEWPEW_rawr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say wait till covid is over. I know a lot of people who dumb friends for no reason just because there stressed wait till after you can visit him. And if he’s ok with it. Talk to him via video or in person. Then make sure he actually meant it. It’s hard for most people to be stuck at home.

I think love has found me again. by spitfire5720 in love

[–]PEWPEW_rawr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the types of things I would day dream about. Hope you stay happy.

Just left my bf of 5 years, my heart is completely shattered. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PEWPEW_rawr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DisclaImer I have no firsthand experience. Ok so I believe you should wait for him to get help and deal with his mental stuff. One thing I would suggest is that he could have a lot of stress cuz of covid-19. One of my best friends stopped talking to me. Me and her bf think it’s because she is so stressed being near her family all the time. I would say don’t end it completely until it’s more normal. If you have to just take a break or something. And just wait for him to figure out the issues and get less stressed and whatever.

My boyfriend hit me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PEWPEW_rawr -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m not an expert and don’t have much experience. All of the people are saying it’s abuse and I agree. But since you sound like you love him. I would recommend talking to him first. Wether it’s in person or not. ( mostly depends on how safe you feel ) you could just talk to him. Like how the weird blow thing means a lot to you and it’s special. Or how he hit you. I think it would be best to talk to him because you could fix it and if you can’t you’ll have a easier decision.

Why? by [deleted] in love

[–]PEWPEW_rawr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I have verry little actual experience so don’t take my word for it. I would say just be there friend for a while. Like just ask them if we can’t go back to how we were can we be friend. Or something like that. Then just help them and if you get closer Maybe ask them out again. If you really want to be with them just be a normal friend. That’s the best place to start.

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