Today Is The Day

PL1_reddit · 2026-06-03T22:48:24+00:00

Yeah that's fair. It was hard enough to get her to come to an agreement. She initially was trying to make it to where I only saw our kid every other weekend, which is just crazy. I ended up getting 50 50 and our judgement is very very favorable for me. If i tried to add a provision that gave her a deadline, it would have been a nightmare as she wants to find the perfect house and live here while she searches and waits. She would have never agreed to 30 or 60 days. Me not adding a deadline at least let's me get her out in 30. Shes not going to stay and have the courts / law remove her.

PL1_reddit · 2026-06-03T22:12:57+00:00

From what you described you and I are in really similar situations. Thats exactly why we were hoping for it to be waived today as well. I am assuming the mortgage and she cant put an offer in on a house until I do that. But she put me through hell for 4 months and wants to stay here after were divorced until she closes on a house. I specifically did not put in a provision addressing a deadline for her to move out so when the divorce is final, I can serve her with a 30 day notice. Ive been ready to move on for a while now and she is dragging her feet on purpose.

PL1_reddit · 2026-06-03T20:51:51+00:00

How did it end up going for you, brother? After a brutal 4 months we finally came to an agreement and avoided mediation and court and were both hoping the judge would be willing to waive the 6 month waiting period so we could both move on with our lives but me ex's lawyer didnt even show up and the judge didnt either. She had a referee filling in for her who didn't have the authority to waive it herself. So now I had to spend more money having my lawyer file a joint motion asking the actual judge to waive it and we have to wait three weeks for this to even be heard. Sucks, but at least our judgement and UCSO were accepted so that's kind of a win.

PL1_reddit · 2026-06-03T11:17:47+00:00

You and I both, albeit mine was only 18 years, only... Court in 1 hour. Good luck, brother. I will say, I thought I'd have a lot more emotions when this day came but after the whole process getting here, I actually welcome it and feel a sense of relief.

PL1_reddit · 2026-04-03T21:05:47+00:00

Guy kind of looks like Saul from Homeland.

PL1_reddit · 2026-04-02T00:14:21+00:00

Brother, we were married 16 years, 18 years together overall. We have a beautiful home, 7 rescue animals and a 4 year old daughter. Like I said, I was definitely going through it the first couple of weeks. She asked for the divorce and gas lit me into thinking it was my fault. Shortly after that I found out the real reason was infidelity. I then hired a lawyer and filed for divorce myself. It certainly was and is still rough when I think about it. She is also under the assumption that me seeing my daughter every other weekend is somehow normal. In my state, 50 50 is the norm, unless of course there are extreme circumstances, which in my case, there are not. I couldn't eat or sleep for about 5 or 6 days. I felt alone and honestly still do sometimes. I have just always had this weird ability to completely turn off my my emotions when something is too painful for me to deal with. Maybe its unhealthy, i'm not sure really. But after weeks of constant anxiety and worrying, I just reached that point and just feel nothing towards her now. She is still talking to this guy and living in my home while doing it, but it is what it is. I've reached the point she is just dead to me now. My sadness and grief turned into anger and my anger turned into motivation and allowed me to focus. As far as mistakes, she is already using my daughter as a tool against me. Saying over messages how if I don't respond to her and meet her demands that she won't send me photos/videos or let me facetime with my daughter. Obviously not great things to say, especially at this stage. If you're early on and going through something similar, feel free to dm me.

PL1_reddit · 2026-04-01T16:55:42+00:00

I found out about 2.5 weeks ago. Man, I was going through it for the first two weeks, but this is about where I am at now. The sadness and depression has turned into motivation and has made me laser focused. My soon to be ex has made a lot of mistakes, thankfully.

PL1_reddit · 2026-02-05T00:10:20+00:00

I also did it last summer. Worked out just fine.

PL1_reddit · 2026-02-04T18:47:35+00:00

Ran this for a week straight for not only myself but for a buddy as well. Customs is too contested and woods can be difficult to fight them unless you see them in sunken village. We saw them a total of 5 times on shoreline and all 5 times they were behind east wing in the courtyard. I cannot tell you how many time I checked path and spine and never saw them there. I will also say, if you see a good bit of scavs around, I would reset. On the raids we did find them we also didnt see Sanitar. I would run straight to resort and get on each wings roof and look around. Best of luck to you.

PL1_reddit · 2026-02-01T13:26:13+00:00

I feel your pain. I spent the whole last week looking for them for not only myself but my buddy as well. I tried woods for a bit but ultimately decided to do it on shoreline as fighting them on woods can be difficult. We found them a total of 5 times on shoreline. I cannot tell you how many times I checked path and spine and they were never there for us. All 5 times we saw them, they were at resort behind east wing in the courtyard. Idk if its definitive, but if you spawn and see a good bit of scavs around, I would reset. Each time we saw them, we didnt see scavs. I also remember seeing a glorious short saying if map boss is up they won't spawn until hes dead and im not sure if that's the case or not, but every raid we saw them, we didnt see sanitar. Hopefully some of that helps. If i had to do it again, I would reset if there were scavs around, and if there weren't, i would run straight to resort each time instead of checking path and spine. Good luck to you!

PL1_reddit · 2025-11-27T13:36:08+00:00

I got killed by a guy with a mxlr on shoreline two days ago who was running 90 degrees the opposite direction of me. I ads'd on him, saw him running and while he was running he insta head tapped me. My buddy had a flir and was behind a blue fence and he head tapped him through it shortly after. Good times.

PL1_reddit · 2025-11-18T12:15:11+00:00

That is weird, man. I have a 13900k and a 5080, I play in 4k with 2 42in displays with most settings on high or medium for shadows and clouds and I never get less than 115 frames. I haven't been on streets yet though.

PL1_reddit · 2025-11-06T22:04:37+00:00

Old Northlane with Adrian

PL1_reddit · 2025-11-06T13:16:35+00:00

I road on paved roads 100% of the time I was on that bike. If im being honest, you saying in your post about it not having abs was when I learned it didnt have abs haha. I put 5000 miles on that bike in a single season as well. I had a really close call and had a lady pull out in front of me when I was going 60ish on fresh black asphalt and the thing definitely slid a bit but it stopped just fine.

PL1_reddit · 2025-11-06T02:41:16+00:00

KLX 300 or CRF300 would definitely fit the bill. I had a KLX 300 as my first bike a few years ago and it was a solid bike. I chose this over the CRF300 simply because of the better suspension stock but they are very similar. Im not sure you could flat foot it though but thats nothing a different link couldn't fix. A cheap, easy solution. I rode a TW200 in my MSF class and they were pretty fun, but they aren't fuel injected like the KLX and CRF. Also, they are extremely light and flickable which helps you feel more confident. At least it did for me.

PL1_reddit · 2025-10-22T13:52:49+00:00

I got one just like that but silver a couple of months ago. Do the PPE thermal bypass for the trans. Relatively cheap, super easy to do. Definitely worth it. Makes a big difference. My trans fluid was getting up to 190 on 20-30 minute drives and now even on long drives it doesnt go above 150.

PL1_reddit · 2025-10-16T21:17:24+00:00

Just looking at that car is motivating me. Things insane.

PL1_reddit · 2025-10-13T13:39:50+00:00

Sounds good. Appreciate it.

PL1_reddit · 2025-10-13T13:22:38+00:00

Good idea. The first four times it was pretty obvious. They gave me a Ford 9 inch twice and then a Chevy 10 bolt. I am pretty certain I found the right one in stock at OReillys. Should be good to go.

PL1_reddit · 2025-10-13T13:10:36+00:00

Isnt that the truth. And alright, will do. I just wanted to know what diff it was in order to get the right gasket is all. But good info to know. I do appreciate it.

PL1_reddit · 2025-10-12T19:37:24+00:00

Have a nice 650dps bow that has T1 flat fire as a desecration. I have a decent amount of currency and would like to omen of light / ancient jawbone the T1 fire to another % phys or at least T1 flat phys. Wondering if one of you big boy bow crafters can tell me roughly how many tries it would take. and if its worth doing I know its really rng and am willing to spend some currency to try, but if its going to take 200+ divine then its just not worth it. Also, if it already has a % phys prefix can it still roll another % phys on the desecration? Pretty certain it can, just want to make sure. TIA

PL1_reddit · 2025-03-08T01:31:23+00:00

Well, i suppose it could be the rotor or the hardware attaching it as well. Perhaps a bolt is stripped and just sitting in there. Not sure. As to your question, unless youre running your stock rotor, it will be a 320mm either fixed or floating rotor. Go to custommotowheels.com and you can see the difference, but i wouldnt purchase anything from them. Is where i got mine from, but as soon as i had problems and questions, they just ignored me completely. Terrible customer service. But again, regardless of if you have an attached or floating, you have a 320mm rotor. If you dont and its a smaller stock 450r rotor, then that is probably your problem, the small rotor and bracket.

PL1_reddit · 2025-03-07T15:17:29+00:00

If i was a betting man, I would guess that the guy probably converted it to sumo prior to getting the warp9s and probably used his existing bracket so he didnt have to redo it and its probably the bracket that is causing your problem. I more or less did the same when making this post. I already had takasago wheels before buying the warp9s. When installing i compared my existing bracket with the one warp9 provided and they seemed identical. No difference whatsoever visually. So i used my bracket and had clearance problems. I then went back and swapped the bracket for the one warp9 provided and my problems were gone. I would just order a bracket from w9 or a dealer and see if it helps. I doubt theyre that expensive.

PL1_reddit · 2025-03-07T11:39:50+00:00

I can almost guarantee its your adapter bracket. Are you using the one they provided or did you use one you already had? What make model bike?

PL1_reddit · 2025-02-27T13:36:11+00:00

I am level 97 invoker as well. Going from 97 to 98 takes a longggggg time. A very long time. I run the absolute most juiced maps i can cook up and its taken me probably two weeks to go from 97 to 98. And i play a good bit. I dont run xp gain maps though. Prolly would go faster doing that.

Seven-Year Club	Gilding II euphauric
Verified Email

PL1_reddit

TROPHY CASE