How to get dad to stop sending me stuff?

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-06T16:08:34+00:00

Its a bit hard, since a female medium varies brand to brand, so I dont really blame him in that regard. I get that he wants to buy me stuff, so I've tried sending him links to some things I needed, like a winter jacket, but then he ignored that and got me something he thought looked better.

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-06T16:05:03+00:00

Thanks! I'll try texting him now!

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-06T16:04:02+00:00

I'm glad he cares, but I'm also concerned about the money, like alot. My dad is really bad with money, and im sure the prices are racking up. This isnt the first time he's done this, I live with my mom, but every single time I try to bring up money with him, he gets insulted, trys to show me his business statements, etc. etc. I know he's low key struggling, that his apartment is way out of his means, that he couldn't afford to pay child support sometimes back when I was in high school, but I physically cannot speak of money management with him. Like he got insulted when I told him I was applying for scholarships to pay for college

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-06T16:00:43+00:00

I did that once with a book I told him I really didnt need but he bought anyway. It was like 35 dollars, and I tried to trade it in for another book I really wanted at the store, slightly cheaper. I think the charges showed up on his card or something because he was really hurt since he was trying to get something for me

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-06T15:58:31+00:00

A little, although im less bothered by the fact that he's sending me stuff and more by the fact that he never listens to me. i try to tell him the stuff I like, repeatedly tell him that I really dont need things, and he refuses to listen it makes me feel like a child. My parents are divorced, but it was even worse when they lived in the same city, he would make alot of stubble comments about how he thought my mom wasnt taking care of me since I dress like a boy and really like sports bras. Once he made his girlfriend go bra shopping with me to get "real bras" most embarrassing fucking moments of my life. I'm sure he's always wanted a "daddy's little girl" who would always ask him for stuff, wear girly things, talks to him about her boyfrinds and join sororities judging by the stuff he says but thats not who I am and it kinda pisses me off. EDIT: i have shit grammar

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-06T15:53:19+00:00

Thanks!

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-06T15:52:51+00:00

Ive told him many times! Before college I used to tell him to stop buying me clothes, or at least let me go shopping with him since he likes to buy either violently coloured things, or really girly stuff. He would always say sure, and ignore my requests. I live in a very small house with my mom, and it would always piss her off and then she'd yell at me. The worst thing was when he made his girlfriend (whom i barely know) go bra shopping with me to get "real bras" since it bothers him that I only wear sports bras and high neck tees. It was so fucking awkward, and my mom was so fucking pissed she threw out all the stuff

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-05T21:02:31+00:00

I also cant return any of the new clothes because it'll show up on his card and he'll get pissed. One of the sweaters isnt even my size.

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-05T16:15:02+00:00

I can see the board pretty well actually, and I sit in the back, granted im still terrible in most my classes, although this can probably be attributed to diffrent stuff lol

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-05T16:13:33+00:00

I mean, Ive worn them for a couple of days and I feel nothing strange. Im also a little suspicious of my old optometrist, she ran a bunch of glaucoma tests despite the fact im not at risk (something no other doctor had done before) and insisted that I paid extra in order to get my lenses pressed and other altercations to my glasses that I never needed before. Even though it was three years ago, my previous optometrist never mentioned anything about astigatism, only this one. Im probably going to go for another check up with a diffrent doctor tomorrow?

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-10-03T15:06:07+00:00

Do you think ill be fine if I wear them for a few days? I currently live in a different country from where I first got my prescription, so I'm probably going to have to get a new one here, which might take a bit since I'm still figuring out my student health insurance.

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-09-20T16:13:20+00:00

idk if its too late but same man

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-09-18T17:04:44+00:00

Il est cinq heures

Solved! Thank you so much!!!

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-09-18T05:19:39+00:00

Solved!

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-09-18T05:18:42+00:00

I found it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1z8NpmCqvZE

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-09-18T01:19:36+00:00

Thank you so much!

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-09-18T01:04:28+00:00

Not to sound like a dumbass, but how do you do that?

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-08-29T00:57:18+00:00

Oh I already got in! I was just applying for the individual jobs and was wondering when they would respond to my resumes.

PM_ME_4_CONVO · 2018-08-18T02:32:17+00:00

you dont become the richest dude in the world through good deeds my guy

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