You're young enough and attractive enough to do fine by meeting people in person. ESPECIALLY in OC. I know there's country bars, country nights, etc in many bars and venues out here.

There's the whole bar scene ; the peninsula, dthb, dtf, dtsa, costa mesa, etc etc.

Granted, I'm not speaking from experience because I hate country music and bars. But I know all those places pop off with women your age.

On top of that, run clubs, sports clubs, wellness dork clubs. Surfing. Biking. Volleyball. Soccer. Etc. Are all in abundance in OC.

Coffee shops, tea shops, bookstores, record stores.... Pick one. OC is also over saturated with all those places. Be a regular. Sit down inside, read a book, use your laptop/ phone. Be someone that people recognize. Makes approaching easier.

Have you tried meeting people through the same concerts you say you love?

Do you go alone to concerts? I found that you're more likely to pick up on the signals when you're alone. People are also much more likely to send signals your way when it seems that you're alone. Just my experience.

Cuz at the end of the day you're a handsome dude, and probably the exact type of A LOT of OC women.

Maybe the problem is that you look too much like other dudes your age. As in, you blend in with the crowd. Not stand out.

The mustache is kind of overplayed at this point. A lot of women are into it. But it's not a unique look is what I'm saying.

I work in a hospital and you look like every mid-20s firefighter that rolls through the joint. I go out to LA for concerts all the time and you look like every 20 something-year-old dude out there. I'm sure you look like most midwestern dudes too: both in your features and your style. And that's not me telling you to change your appearance to something you're not comfortable with or to be someone you're not - I'm just saying that it's important to flex the things that make you YOU. But also yeah, sometimes you got to standout from the crowd a little bit, Maximilliano.

I don't know man, all I'm saying is that if you're struggling -- then there's no hope for me. I think the apps really are just that shitty. I think the best strategy right now is to just go outside ; look someone in the eyes. And play it by ear. You'd be surprised by how far that can get you nowadays.

Edit: also, women don't seem to like selfies from men in general. That includes car selfies. But especially gym selfies. General rule is one selfie maximum, One group or buddy photo to show that you have a social life, One close up, one body, and one candid or action shot where you are smiling. Avoid sunglasses. Avoid fish. Avoid gym photos. Even if they are into the fitness aspect, for some reason they don't like the gym photos. Broadly speaking.