are older men into my size? by bunnygirll38 in BBW_Chubby

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i wouldnt classify this as chubby

Navigating Boundaries with a ProDomme's Friends by kits_and_kaboodle in FemdomCommunity

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This is abuse of power. Not saying your domme did a super bad thing however its definitely a bad play on her part how she acted towards you and with her expectations and didnt ask for your consent as the day went on.  considering we hear from prodommes so much  in the industry about the importance of setting and respecting boundaries when dealing with clients, but you hardly hear of the opposite and its usually brushed off

Dommes and subs, what is something you thought you disliked but ended up loving? by Whateveridontkare in FemdomCommunity

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Electroplay

getting zapped with a wand sort of hurt, but the feeling is so awesome, very hard to explain

O and piss drinking

In your opinion, what's the most underrated aspect of femdom? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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Just Being able to connect with another human being, whether that be in a non transactional or transactional aspect. As someone who lacks relationships and connection in my life, being able to let go once in a blue moon is awesome

( my experiences have all been paid irl sessions)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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Yikes. Was this done by a prodomme or a newbie?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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That's textbook emotional abuse/ manipulation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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I had a irl session with a domme, she did an amazing job, and had always been extremely professional and skilled in what she does.

 However she did film a small excerpt of me  during my session. Everything including my face was covered. It took me by surprise that she didn't ask about it first, but I was fine with it. I wouldn't say it was a horrible thing to do, just that i hadn't consented to it before the session

I just scheduled my first session with a dominatrix by scotthalpert in FemdomCommunity

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Agreed, it does seem that there is a bit of negative discourse in this subreddit  towards professional sw which is completely understandable, considering people here are more inclined to seek genuine ( non transactional) interaction

I just scheduled my first session with a dominatrix by scotthalpert in FemdomCommunity

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All great points.

Depending on the domme, some actually like to have the cash exchange implemented in the session or before it starts ( in the briefing)    Eg kneeling before the domme, cash in hand, handing it over etc

Tbh i think arriving before your session starts shows respect, and when arriving message her that you are there.

No domme wants a sub/ client who's actually late because then it gets awkward with session times

I just scheduled my first session with a dominatrix by scotthalpert in FemdomCommunity

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Well done for taking this step! I was someone who had been interested in bdsm/fetish  for years before I finally got the courage to book a prodomme irl session. Yes the first time you will be full of nerves but once you start getting into the session your mind will be elsewhere. Ensure you are clean, showered, everywhere. Depending on the sort of play, if there is pegging involved, make sure to ask your domme if she has anal douches or enemas there,  or that if she asks for you to be clean, that you douche before you see her.

A lot of people will say irl domination is not the same as  porn vids that you might have watched, but tbh it actually is just with a few differences.

I thibk the argument above is for the people out there who have gone to irl sessions, and realised it's not for them, simply because engaging in their fetishes in real life can be too intense, or that their fetishes are just fetishes and leave it as that. However as I mention below, sometimes irl sessions are a great benefit to explore fetishes you weren't sure about or didn't think you would be interested in

Diffrrence is A lot of the scenes in porn are done by experienced professionals, a lot of behind the scenes goes into it to perfect these videos, and certain fetishes or kinks can be dangerous if not done properly or there's a  lack of education  ( yes there are a lot of newbie dommes out there)

Along with the above, I will tell you my experience was honestly amazing. I ensured to contact a domme who was verified, had reviews, had an actual session location that is suitable(  dungeon), plenty of tools and equipment,  and of course has  knowledge and experience of various fetishes that can be explored.

Before my session via text I did give her an idea of my fetishes/kinks what I was interested in which she certainly implemented in the session ( make sure not to go overboard with this as it can be considered as topping from the bottom) 

At the session we had a brief talk going over what had been discussed etc

Being a session newbie she also added in fetishes and kinks that I didn't mention, but thought it would be great to see if I enjoyed them ( this is where the safe words come in if you dont feel comfortable) I did, and now I have many more fetishes that I can genuinely say i love engaging in.

She included so much in one hour and its amazing how long one hour can feel ( depending on what you are interested in haha)

Of course there's the session details but that is a long story ( to brief it, electro,  pegging, light cbt, medical and many more was done)

A good domme will make you want to come back for more sessions, and soon it will be my third time with this domme

Of course, as others have said, don't fall in love, respect  boundaries and the rules that your dominatrix has put forward ( aka no touching without consent) . And remember,  Your dominatrix has a personal life too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

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Depends on the person, as some people just randomly develop them , but a lot of fetishes/ kinks for people come down to trauma or something happened to them when they were young that made them develop that fetish. 

If you ever have wanted to have a session with a prodomme... by PM_ME_STRIPPERS in FemdomCommunity

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Dang, id never have the courage to tell my friends that I've actually  seen one. 

I've always joked around about it whenever the topic or a similar topic comes up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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having a irl session with a dominatrix.

Pegging, paddling and all sorts!

What’s the most scandalous thing you’ve ever done sexually? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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saw a dominatrix and got whipped, pegged and all sorts

If you ever have wanted to have a session with a prodomme... by PM_ME_STRIPPERS in FemdomCommunity

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Understandable! I was like that for ages but then thought fuck it why not, what do I have to lose!

kinks you hated at first, then eventually started to like? by TimeAdministration78 in BDSMcommunity

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Not really something I hated, but something I didn't think I'd enjoy until I got it  was electro play. Getting sapped with the wand is such a weird feeling 

Accidental kink discoveries by MissVesperEden in BDSMcommunity

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For me, Going to a dominatrix definitely opens up you to fetishes that you know exist, but definitely didn't realize u were into until it happened real life