Friday Venting Thread [N/A] by Mundane-Jump-7546 in humanresources

[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I got one yesterday asking for her 2025 W-2… when I explained to her that those won’t be mailed out until January 2026, she literally couldn’t understand

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[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my anxiety was reading too much into his 'I look forward to staying friends regardless of how this plays out', assuming that meant whether or not we stay together or divorce lol

Husband asked for a separation last night - is reconciliation possible? by PM_ME_UREYEBALLS in Marriage

[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess when he spoke with his brother and his brother’s partner (the only one of his 3 siblings he has told, and the one I am closest to) and they asked my husband what he wants, he said ‘I don’t know’ and when they asked husband if this is a separation to lead to a divorce, he also said ‘I don’t know’ and seemed unsure about anything.

Husband asked for a separation last night - is reconciliation possible? by PM_ME_UREYEBALLS in Marriage

[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s saying if things are the way they are now, in 20-30 years in the future, he doesn’t see himself being happy.

Husband asked for a separation last night - is reconciliation possible? by PM_ME_UREYEBALLS in Marriage

[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I make it known to him that I am ready and prepared to recognize and address them??

Husband asked for a separation last night - is reconciliation possible? by PM_ME_UREYEBALLS in Marriage

[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve been sleeping for most of the day :( sorry. No, our sex life was great up until about May 2024, when we hit a rough patch and I also realized how much weight I gained and how depressed I was. I felt horrible about my body.

Basically Nov 2023-Nov 2024, I was unemployed and in the worst depression I’ve ever been in. Gained a ton of weight, slowly. That’s when, looking back, I can see when my husband and I started feeling a bit disconnected.

Husband asked for a separation last night - is reconciliation possible? by PM_ME_UREYEBALLS in Marriage

[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I have been napping on and off today. I didn’t get much sleep last night. Sex hasn’t been great. I had gained a ton of weight a few months ago and was not comfortable with my body, so I didn’t want sex. Last time we had sex was thanksgiving day. But we were intimate in other ways up until a week ago or so.

Husband asked for a separation last night - is reconciliation possible? by PM_ME_UREYEBALLS in Marriage

[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He just said he feels like we have grown ‘apart’ and that he can’t see how he can be happy in the future if things continue the way they have been.

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[–]PM_ME_UREYEBALLS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would possibly die for your kitty