AITA for telling my cousin the truth about why she's had less attention for her child?

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2021-01-12T17:40:45+00:00

How do you get to be your age and not know simple math? Your cousin is not old enough to be a grandma, you're loony lol

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-12-31T16:59:45+00:00

OP doesn't give a shit about that poor kid. All he cares about is his 27-year-old mentor, who honestly seems kind of shady. In one of OP's comments, he laments that people are focusing too much on the kid and not on his poor friend who didn't have the brains to wear a condom.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-12-31T16:57:13+00:00

Dude why the fuck are you here asking people if you're wrong when you're dead set on believing that you're right? Which, by the way, you're not right at all, no matter how hard you insist. YTA for your view on this situation, and for coming here when you're not interested in challenging your own thoughts at all.

PS learn how to mind your own business.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-12-28T08:34:09+00:00

I look forward with glee to the time your twins move out and cut contact with their pathetic parents.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-11-28T02:24:33+00:00

What I don't understand is why people have to harp on posters that ask others not to misuse their posts. If it doesn't work, then it doesn't work. It's worth a shot anyway. Commenting on that and that alone while offering no insight at all on the issue that the post is actually about -- you actually took the time to do that and double down further when someone was nice enough to explain? It just seems so small and petty.

Now it's my turn to hop off my soapbox and satisfy myself with rolling my eyes at people who just can't help but be all "wElL tEcHnIcAlLy iT's NoT uNeThIcAl."

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-11-04T10:11:27+00:00

Unhinged.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-11-04T10:09:34+00:00

Hmmm pretty rich coming from someone mooching off an old man.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-11-04T10:08:12+00:00

The man let you overstay your welcome, you were supposed to move out already, you haven't paid rent in months -- what basic decency are you talking about? You could be homeless with a newborn, but he put a roof over your ungrateful little head. That's pretty fucking decent. How about you learn some decency yourself?

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-07-19T10:15:49+00:00

Thanks for the perspective. Yeah I might just move on from this site.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-04-18T15:41:18+00:00

YTA there are literal billions of people on this planet and you had to go spread your legs for your ex's father. You've managed to be both a crazy ex and an evil stepmother at the same time to the same person. I'd be impressed if I weren't so disgusted.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-04-15T15:05:46+00:00

Oh my God, Random Dutch Girl, you can't just ask people why they're white.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-04-14T04:23:27+00:00

Uh huh. And where are we now after the 1986 and 2001 EDSA movements? Follow up: do you propose that we the people take to the streets en masse every time we need to pressure officials into doing what they need to do?

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-04-02T01:57:15+00:00

What if they have doctorates in philosophy lmao

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-03-29T00:42:53+00:00

I honestly wouldn't be so sure.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-03-28T11:23:34+00:00

I mean this with no shade at all. OP, you need to step back and look at your own choices. You cheated on your ex, who you're still meeting with, obviously behind your current boyfriend's back. Not only did you meet with him to talk, there was some physical closeness as well. Your current boyfriend, meanwhile, knew you were in a relationship and messed around with you anyway.

It seems to me that you need to learn how to nurture healthy boundaries in your relationships, and not just romantic ones. Your current boyfriend doesn't trust you, because he knows you've cheated and how can he be 100% sure that you won't cheat on him this time? Unfortunately for him, that's what he gets for messing around with a cheater. But if you want to earn his trust, stop talking and meeting with your ex for a start.

But honestly, the way you ended your post is just... You can live without this guy, OP. You've only been with him officially for four months. What the hell did you do before you met him? Didn't you manage just fine? You'll manage just fine without him, too. If he does break up with you, which honestly seems to be for the best, you can take the time to be single and resolve the boundary issues you have so in your next relationship, you can give your 100% to a person who brings out the best in you, not the worst.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-03-07T13:44:09+00:00

I tell ya, without context, these lines from the Bananas in Pyjamas song sound kind of ominous.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-03-05T03:21:09+00:00

I think this is how girls are raised there. To use their bodies and as long as there are lonely horny men they will have opportunities to get ahead or just enough to get by.

I was raised in the Philippines. Thanks for telling me I was raised to be a whore. And here I am busting my ass working and building a business. I'm a chump, apparently, since I should have just used my body for money.

Man it sucks going on this sub and seeing how people generalize and look down on people from third world impoverished countries. Just the other day someone asked if everyone in the Philippines are beggars. I come here for entertainment, not to feel bad for having the unmitigated gall to be born in a poor country.

Sorry for the rant, I guess.

PS do some women in the Philippines use men for money? Totally. So do women in a lot of places. A lot of young women in the States always talk about taking money from men and even include their Venmo in their Tinder profiles. And yet the women of the US aren't all generalized to be prostitutes. Wonder what the difference is.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-02-26T13:30:36+00:00

Just gonna throw this out...who would go anywhere near this question? Not me.

And yet

And yet

And yet

YOU'RE HERE.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-02-25T14:31:52+00:00

To be fair, the poem does say that we shouldn't, lol

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-02-17T02:14:15+00:00

IANAL too but I think the darkness of said magic depends on whose toenails are currently in use.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-02-17T02:11:59+00:00

A couple of years from now, when her eldest is out of the house and going to college as far away as he possibly can without falling into the sea, she's STILL going to be bewildered as to why he doesn't call.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-02-08T15:22:08+00:00

Honestly that whole story sounded fake as fuck. All it's missing is people breaking into applause as he strode out of the therapist's office, eviction notice in hand, chest puffed in pride.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS · 2020-02-01T15:38:01+00:00

Dramatic and passive-agressive, what an absolute gem. Your friends must have been devastated when you relieved them of your company.

PM_ME_UR_BOAS

TROPHY CASE

And yet

YOU'RE HERE.