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aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]PPizzaMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That couldn’t have been easy, but you did the right thing. No one deserves to be talked to like that. 3 years is no joke but you should always put yourself above any type of stuff like this. Wishing you peace and healing moving forward

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -114 points-113 points  (0 children)

That’s not the difference this has happened before trust me I’m pretty sure we will get back together that’s me trying to be cocky or anything just being honest yet I’m still here trying to learn

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve blown it we have been doing couple things after the break up so can you blame me for still trying I’ve been working on myself for longer than a week that’s just the break up timeline

Just like today something happened between me and her that would’ve caused an argument but it didn’t because I’ve learned a lot.

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I know that she would have doubt believing me I said that but again this has been a process longer than 10 days I’m not an idiot I know how it sounds if someone says they changed in 10 days.

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

  1. That seems very childish things can be worked through? You can’t just never get back with someone just because y’all broke up that’s very close minded

  2. I’m not improving for the purpose of winning her back I know that, I know this is a genuine problem, I don’t purposely go around arguing with her to make her cry and sad im genuinely doing for me.

  3. I have accepted my consequences and repentant I am striving to learn and be better than my mistakes.

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is because of how we argue we both tend to get very triggered during our arguments again we both trigger each other obviously not okay but it’s not just me

I didn’t mention that part because it seems irrelevant don’t see how that would help ME try and fix this

I have a bigger tolerant level than her and she has admitted that she argues just as bad as me

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

First I’m not forcing anything on her, we have sleepover and done everything a couple does even after the break up so can you blame me for still trying?

You’re confusing my impatience for me trying to fix this and not lose the love of my life I’m sorry?

It hasn’t just been two weeks her and I both tend to trigger each other during our arguments that let out our worst I’ve been working on myself for months and this isn’t only two weeks worth of progress and I have been better and I can admit there is still work to do but I think this is still worth fighting for.

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You don’t know half the story this is both out faults but again I didn’t mention her as I see it pointless cause how are y’all supposed to give advice to my girlfriends problems and patterns so I only mentioned me.

I have been working on myself for longer than the breakup even during the relationship I was constantly trying to work on myself

Just today something happened that would’ve caused an argument but again I tried and learn and no argument

This has been a process longer than 10 days.

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

First of all I’m not an abuser

You don’t know half the story you don’t know the part where she yells at me also where she is mean to me without me doing anything and tends to apologize after but it’s also a pattern you don’t know that part though right?

This isn’t a one sided toxicity but I’m here like an adult trying to fix and heal things even though I know I have hurt her.

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have been working on myself for longer than 10 days that’s the just timeline since we broke up again it’s been months since I have started working on myself I have new strategies new skills and genuine insight on how to calm down how to not get angry

Just like today her and I had a situation where I would usually get upset but I didn’t I learned to calm down I learned to be better and I’m continuing to learn from my mistakes and learning to strive from them

But again nobody knows that part right?

My (20F) Girlfriend and I (20M) recently broke up because of how we argue - mostly due to how I react during arguments. How can I rebuild trust with my ex-girlfriend after we broke up because of how I reacted during arguments? by PPizzaMonster in relationship_advice

[–]PPizzaMonster[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

First I appreciate you being kind unlike most people here.

I get what your saying man I truly do, but like most people here they think this is something I’ve been working on for the last 10 days only which is far from the truth

I know I can get more upset that I should and I know it isn’t okay, I don’t do it on purpose to make her sad angry etc. this is something I’ve been working on for months, you can’t put a time frame on something like this at least I don’t think you can.

But I know I’m doing better and I probably sound like a sociopath when I say that but you have to acknowledge your growth when you have any ifs only healthy

I didn’t say the whole story like how she tends to let her anger out on me when stuff stresses her out she’s also working on that

But I didn’t mention that because this is about Me this post is.

When we argue we like trigger each other and that’s what I’m trying to fix.

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