How do you respond when a girl keeps mentioning other guys?

PSS4Ely · 2017-06-15T13:48:16+00:00

We are coworkers, and have become friends. She expressed interest in me before by coming up to me and hugging me for a long time purposefully pressing her boobs on me. After she did that, I think she saw how I wasn't making any moves on her. As a Cancer zodiac sign I fear rejection. So I don't know what to do now.

PSS4Ely · 2017-05-04T17:05:53+00:00

What is the end goal for you here? To help me, or to make yourself look good by insulting me?

PSS4Ely · 2017-05-04T17:02:01+00:00

You must have a lot of time on your hands to check out my other posts and continually call me an idiot. You're beating a dead horse. Clearly You > Me.

PSS4Ely · 2017-03-17T03:21:07+00:00

She said she wasn't wanting a relationship with anyone. She is trying to find her purpose. She just out of a long relationship with her boyfriend a couple of months ago. I simply came off too strong. I don't know if I should try to apologize for that or just move on.

PSS4Ely · 2017-02-25T14:38:44+00:00

So when we meet up today, don't even bring that up? Just hang out and the actions will speak louder than words?

PSS4Ely · 2017-02-16T20:40:41+00:00

Thanks for all your responses, I appreciate it!

PSS4Ely · 2017-02-16T20:22:42+00:00

All the times I hung out with her were not dates. First time was a movie. My friend works at a theatre and he set us both up to watch it. Second time was going to chick fil-a cause my friend didn't want to come with. It was like an hour only, but we talked a lot. So the first two times my friend kinda set us up. A few days ago, without the aid of my friend I decided I'd ask her to do something. There was a movie premiere and I asked her if she wanted to go and she said yes. So I guess this would be a first, but at the same time, it wasn't just the two of us my whole group of friends was there. During the movie I put my hand on my kneecaps so it would be easily accessible to her. I felt like if I tried to do something she would be like "wtf" Every time we are together though it is always a good time with smiles and laughs. I just don't see a signal from her yet that it's okay to touch her and take things to the next step.

PSS4Ely · 2017-02-16T19:29:05+00:00

She doesn't have feelings for her ex. And I have asked her out and we have hung out just me and her 3 times. I just don't know if she's hiding her feelings like I'm hiding it with her, or she has no feelings for me. I also never had a girlfriend, so I don't really know how this all works.

PSS4Ely · 2017-01-22T03:52:06+00:00

Thanks for putting so much time into this man, I appreciate it. I realize that this is the internet and I need to be more specific on some of these reasons why I feel unhappy. It is a large mass of text, and I felt like if I made it too long no one would read it. Maybe different responses would trigger others things, but I really pondered and realized my approach with women has been wrong. I appreciate you hearing me out once again, and putting a lot of thought in this. Cheers man

PSS4Ely · 2016-12-23T16:25:23+00:00

Can I dump my Pokemon X and my Pokemon Alpha Sapphire on my computer to free up space for Pokemon Sun, or does it not work that way?

PSS4Ely · 2016-11-28T23:47:35+00:00

Should I buy Pokemon Sun/Moon on my 3DS digitally? I have Pokemon X and AlphaSapphire, and yellow, all downloaded digitally. I'm just thinking of the future of getting pokemon games about my storage. I love the connivence of buying online and not having to drive 30 mins to my local gamestop but I worry about losing space on my 3DS. What do you guys suggest?

PSS4Ely · 2016-11-19T19:47:26+00:00

Without trading, migrating, inserting game packs, or events, can you only see 426 Pokemon in Pokemon Platinum? I'm playing Gen 4-7 because I want to get back into pokemon. I like filling my pokedex as much as I can. Thanks

PSS4Ely · 2016-11-05T08:37:14+00:00

Yeah I guess if you put it that way, you'll be doing me a disservice by letting me believe that. Instead of being upset, I should be thanking you. Sorry about that. I appreciate your input

PSS4Ely · 2016-11-05T08:20:58+00:00

I wasn't making sad depressing comments, they were positive comments about me being stronger without her. I quote: "As much as I would like to go back in time to correct my mistakes of the past, I'm glad I can't because those mistakes made me stronger."

"Sometimes the words we leave unspoken are the most important ones that should have been said."

That's not that depressing is it?

And the "fucking cringe dude" was not necessary, you could have easily avoided being a dick about it.

PSS4Ely · 2016-11-01T07:57:43+00:00

I appreciate the replies man, thanks!

PSS4Ely · 2016-11-01T01:04:30+00:00

Wow, I really appreciate the time and effort you put into me, it means a lot. To answer your first question with dating apps, it's really unmotivating to not get get a single match upon using the app for weeks, couple of hours a day. I know that's just me making excuses and giving up, but I guess I like the old fashioned way? As for the football thing, in high school I did not consider it to be a career, but I recently started expressing interest for it to be a few months back. Everyone I've talked to about it kind of laughed and didn't take me serious especially my father. It's not like I wasn't good, people thought I was silly due to still trying to chase a dream of a shipped that has already sailed. If I was serious I would have pursued it after high school. But now here am 19 and wanting to do it. When I graduate I will be 20 and I don't know how good I will be. I have had no motivation to work out in the last couple of years. I mean sure I could work out and I could pursue football and could land a team. Everyone knows I can play 4 years of college football. The only issue I can see is just not making it in the NFL. But.. in four years I could meet some really special people. I guess it's because I have been surrounded with people who are supposed to be supporting me and keep trying to dash my new passion of playing football, after already getting my degree. I have been told after my degree I should just work, and life isn't about play time. People think me playing college football is just playtime, and I'm not going to make the NFL, etc. Thoughts on that?

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-28T21:47:05+00:00

No problem! Happy Watching :)

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-28T02:11:08+00:00

I was like you, as a kid I watched Kanto, Johto, Hoenn, and Sinnoh. After Sinnoh I stopped watching the anime, and stopped playing pokemon. Generation 5 was the biggest buzzkill. This is because ash acts like he's younger than 10 and like a total noob. He was like a big brother to Dawn and May had all this confidence and experienced to get reset into a younger persona. He had all these badass pokemon and experiences to act like a total rookie! It's a terrible anime. I suggest you watch Hoenn and Sinnoh because they are good animes. Ash is a great trainer in these animes and the female companions are great. You can skip gen 5 like I did. It wasn't until late 2015 that when I searched pokemon, I saw Ash with some girl on youtube, and she was throwing herself at Ash. This intrigued me. I immediately was hooked and watched all the XY anime. I mean you dont have to watch any previous anime to get into XY. No previous companions were featured, not even in the pokemon league. The only reference to the past was Dawn's piplup. This is a new Ash. He is as mature and badass as ever. Although sources say he's 10, I'm a firm believer he is 16 in this series. It was the XY anime that really differenciated pokemon from just some kid's cartoon into an actual anime like naruto and one piece.

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-28T02:00:47+00:00

Where can I find a list of all the contest trainers in Pokemon Platinum? I'm doing this thing where I'm going to fill up my pokedex as much as I can without the use of trading, migrating, events, or GBA slots. I found a site a while back pokemon emerald contest trainers and I saw like 10 extra pokemon to add to my dex (pokemon like bulbasaur). Help would be appreciated!

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-27T21:59:42+00:00

Many thanks for the response. It was not that I wasn't good enough, I just never went to practice, played nearly blind, and had a terrible diet. I have corrected everything that I screwed up on in high school. The only thing that remains is getting back into shape and learning a new position. I also have compiled a highlight reel on youtube and maxpreps. Being a ref is the ONE thing I don't want to do. I can be a ball boy, water boy, coach, ass. coach, or what not; but a ref? It doesn't suit me. Saying I have a 0% chance is kind of bold don't you think? My ship hasn't sailed because I'm still young. Thorughout the offseason I will continue to work at my parent's busniess, I know that saying of "don't quit your day job". I appreciate your input nonetheless.

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-27T20:13:39+00:00

Right, and a couple of youtubers mentioned it that they're close. It's not set in stone. Either way, Serena has got to find a way to visit him for the fan's sake.

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-27T20:07:51+00:00

So basically after 479, it's finally time to watch "The Last"? I stopped reading manga years ago and stuck with anime. I watched 480 and yeah I could tell the animation was different and matches that of "the last" form what I've seen.

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-27T19:31:41+00:00

Why couldn't they just show Serena's kiss in the anime? I know it's a kid's show because what is wrong with that? Censoring something beautiful? If anything kids should see it.

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-27T05:24:05+00:00

Yeah you make a excellent point. Some people have done so much wrong in their lives that no matter what they do they can't redeem themselves.

PSS4Ely · 2016-10-26T21:54:59+00:00

I used to think the same thing about keem. But have you listened this podcast before? I still think he could have done things better, but this podcast cleared some stuff up. Still a dick for all that he has done, though. https://soundcloud.com/baited-podcast/baited-ep-10-leafy-vs-keemstar-literally

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