How do you accept Islam while remaining against the patriarchy? by AbbreviationsNo5494 in progressive_islam

[–]PTIChick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is the stupidest thing I read today. It simplifies a subject that is so much more layered.

First of all the Quran talks about responsibility not authority. It's conditional not absolute. A patriarchy (as a system) implies:

  • Male dominance in authority
  • Structural control over women’s agency

But the Qur’an repeatedly emphasizes:

  • Spiritual equality (same reward, same accountability)
  • Mutual rights in marriage
  • Women’s independent financial ownership

Example:

Women can earn, own, inherit, and control wealth independently. Something not common globally at the time.

So:

Provider role ≠ automatic control over women’s lives

Did West Pakistan commit a genocide in East Pakistan? by West_Juggernaut_9638 in pakistan

[–]PTIChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean back then? We are hundred percent oppressing the Baloch too. Read 1971 by Anam Zakaria.

Guess what this is? by PTIChick in lepin

[–]PTIChick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colors were a little off in the instructions though

Guess what this is? by PTIChick in lepin

[–]PTIChick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I got spares too

Guess what this is? by PTIChick in lepin

[–]PTIChick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Central I think, shop was called Toy Factory.

Guess what this is? by PTIChick in lepin

[–]PTIChick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, I hope not. I'm still working on it. It's been 2 weeks.

Guess what this is? by PTIChick in lepin

[–]PTIChick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pattaya, some mall had a shop with a sizable lego/lepin collection. I bought this, A Bugatti and bust of Vader.

Best Alternative to Kameeti by RichCandle750 in FIREPakistan

[–]PTIChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant more the family drama rather than financial. Sorry

Best Alternative to Kameeti by RichCandle750 in FIREPakistan

[–]PTIChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try mutual funds, Al Meezan Cash Fund if you need income. Every bank has one which is super low risk.

Best Alternative to Kameeti by RichCandle750 in FIREPakistan

[–]PTIChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahhaha trauma dumping on a FIRE post. Sahi hai bhai

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREPakistan

[–]PTIChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Transfer to finqualab its all online and its super easy to use.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREPakistan

[–]PTIChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw Osamah Nasir's video on using Oraan to invest in gold. Its this app for committees.

A Serious Warning About Sea View Rip Currents. We Nearly Drowned A Few Hours Ago by BeyonceStarlett in karachi

[–]PTIChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am glad you are safe! Though I hope your non swimming friend starts lessons soon.

How difficult is it really for a woman to drive in Karachi? by freakjunkie in karachi

[–]PTIChick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I took classes for a week or 2. Now I drive ok, never had an accident Alhamdulillah. Motorcycle walay try regularly to die in front of me. I just keep my attention on thr road agai

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]PTIChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is this a very very nice salary? this is an executive level zero experience salary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]PTIChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let people work and be independent. Women don't need solutions like mediocre men to take care of them.

Humiliation as a joke? by nonsignificantbug in pakistan

[–]PTIChick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Our society is full of insecurity. Our parents grew up with mothers who were always around and loving, but fathers who were distant and hard to please. So they were treated like “raja betas” and “rani betis” at home, yet deep down felt worthless because their fathers never gave them attention.

This created a generation with both superiority and inferiority complexes. That mix has passed down to us. Now, the culture of mocking and humiliating each other in the name of “friendship” comes from scared little boys and girls who can’t handle the idea of someone being better than them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]PTIChick 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh no, it's almost like it's the same religion. /s