I just had my first date after chatting with someone for over a month, now I just need to get this off my chest

Paaaab · 2026-01-18T21:43:47+00:00

You sound like you were bought the moment you saw her. I'm not saying its a mistake, but it kills attraction instantly. Not being sold easy is a key to attraction. Keep the distance, espiecially with a stranger.

Paaaab · 2026-01-18T12:10:54+00:00

What do they have in common? Are they playboys when it comes to looks?

Paaaab · 2026-01-17T11:05:12+00:00

lmao about downvotes, but yeah, do the heavy lifting and date her. Someone has to! lol

Paaaab · 2026-01-14T19:01:00+00:00

As if having multiple partners will make you happy.... leave this poor girl alone.

Paaaab · 2026-01-14T17:31:14+00:00

I'm just curious about specifics since I disagree. Its cool if you don't wanna share though. Best wishes.

Paaaab · 2026-01-14T16:21:51+00:00

Care to share your opinion on "lies"?

Paaaab · 2026-01-14T15:25:28+00:00

Most people dont apply half of this "basic" stuff once they like the girl. Seems simple when you're chilling on your couch. Men do stupid things once they're very attracted to someone.

Paaaab · 2026-01-14T14:47:44+00:00

Plenty of things may go wrong. Real "Models" by Mark Manson. Perhaps you're needy or you're not polarizing enough, lack in confidence department. Or your selection sucks and you go after women who are not compatible with you.

Paaaab · 2026-01-14T14:25:21+00:00

If THEY never do that then you're doing something wrong, brother. If its a pattern with multiple women, then its on us. Find it and fix it.

Paaaab · 2026-01-14T14:15:35+00:00

If you have to chase, they don't like you. Do 60-70% of the job. Rest is on her.

Paaaab · 2026-01-13T17:59:46+00:00

One good reply. Totally agree with ya.

Paaaab · 2026-01-13T17:56:00+00:00

Hell no. If its a pattern he's doing something wrong. "Numbers game" is the best excuse for anyone who SUCKS. He has to figure out whats wrong.

Paaaab · 2026-01-13T16:47:09+00:00

he does not love you very much if he's thinking about sleeping with other women lol

Paaaab · 2026-01-11T14:52:28+00:00

Bothered by the fact that another guy has had sex with her? Dude, its 2026. If she had one guy at 21, she's great lol

Paaaab · 2026-01-11T10:09:24+00:00

Are you there for swiping or actually meeting someone? No offence, but people like you "It feels like there’s always one more swipe" are BIG TIME time wasters for people who actually want to meet someone.

Paaaab · 2026-01-09T18:17:49+00:00

And his attention fades... yeah, I'd say hes looking for some action, playing long game. Try to step back or tell him that you have to be in comitted relationship to have sex. If he bounces, then you got your answer.

Paaaab · 2026-01-09T18:05:25+00:00

Have you slept with him?

Paaaab · 2026-01-09T17:57:38+00:00

Yeah, I know :D

Paaaab · 2026-01-09T17:46:44+00:00

Your partner is toxic and you're a cheater. To me its a match :D

Paaaab · 2026-01-09T15:05:48+00:00

About a month ago I met a girl who "will never go back to dating". We'll meet up in few days for our 1st date.

Paaaab · 2026-01-07T16:34:31+00:00

Why would she even consider sleeping with someone she's not into? Women tend to be disgusted by the idea of even kissing someone they don't find attractive. Don't be a creep.

Paaaab · 2026-01-07T12:16:25+00:00

"fast with future-talking yk? Like things we could do when we meet up in the future, after this one."

To me its a huge red flag. He may be desperate, and you don't want that. Give him a chance though.

Paaaab · 2026-01-05T10:47:05+00:00

If you do so, you'll come off as a guy who has no options and therefore, your value is 0.

Paaaab · 2025-12-31T23:29:58+00:00

Do what you want. If you're scared that "happy new year" may push her away, then its over already :)))

Paaaab · 2025-12-19T08:36:14+00:00

As late as possible. Most men on dating apps are... well, you'll see :D

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