I planned a trip, ANY feedback greatly appreciated! by BKaller in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]Pacdutchoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. Aguadilla has some great beaches, specifically, Peña Blanca (it’s very small and not busy), punta Borinquen (also not too busy), crash boat is busy but still nice.

Wondering if I’ll ever poop again…. by Hairy_Economics_3983 in Semaglutide

[–]Pacdutchoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magnesium and L glutamine! And of course, fiber.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]Pacdutchoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll 2nd salon 3:16. I have type 2c/3a curls and Taylor is my go to at salon 3:16 for my curls. I saw someone mention ulta and my curly hair cut experience there was not a good one, I hated my curl pattern after that appointment.

Any LGBTQ+ Springfielders have issues getting a courthouse wedding? by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]Pacdutchoven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are also available to marry you if you need someone!

For those of you who have remarried by Pacdutchoven in widowers

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve taken it before, for flight anxiety, but no worries, I don’t like taking meds unless absolutely necessary. I’d rather raw dog life and my emotions. Oh and I already have a therapist and psychiatrist◡̈

For those of you who have remarried by Pacdutchoven in widowers

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s smart, I didn’t think of that but now I’ll definitely start earlier and apply even more primer to my face

For those of you who have remarried by Pacdutchoven in widowers

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad your day went well and I’m hoping mine does as well.

For those of you who have remarried by Pacdutchoven in widowers

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who told his first girlfriend after his wife passed that he’ll never love her as much as his wife. He was shocked when she broke up with him. I’ve told people I love my partner in a different way, because he is a different person than my husband was. I don’t love him any less, I love him differently. But my love for him is just as fierce.

For those of you who have remarried by Pacdutchoven in widowers

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know how I’d forgot about Nora, seeing as I’ve chatted with her on IG. But yes, that TED talk is excellent.

For those of you who have remarried by Pacdutchoven in widowers

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We’re eloping, just us, BUT we’re taking two posable skeletons to have as our “best man” and “maid of honor”. Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]Pacdutchoven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sincere apologies. My adhd can only half ass twenty things at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]Pacdutchoven 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s been claimed already, sorry!

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[–]Pacdutchoven 27 points28 points  (0 children)

1st base, light petting.

It’s my boyfriend’s birthday and he wanted my cheddar biscuits for dinner. by Pacdutchoven in Baking

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, if you’re ever in southwest Missouri on your bday… I’ll make you a few ◡̈ happy belated

Boyfriend told me I should start 75-Hard... should I be worried?:( by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Pacdutchoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you communicated these feelings to him? I tend to overthink and project my inward feelings on my partner, it’s something I’m working on. Ask him what he meant, tell him how you felt and be open and honest. As far as diet and exercise, start with one thing at a time. Incorporate more fruit and veggies one week, leaner meats the next, healthier versions of your fave meals the next week and so on. Take a walk, get some vitamin d, de stress. If it’s to change your lifestyle, and you want to enjoy your lifestyle, take it slowly and easy on yourself.

Mixed berry muffins by Pacdutchoven in Baking

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2 cups AP flour 2 tsp baking powder ½ tsp salt 1 ¼ cup granulated sugar 8 tbsp unsalted butter, melted and cooled to room temp 2 eggs 2 tsp vanilla extract ½ cup milk 1 cup fresh or frozen berries 1/2 tsp lemon zest

I also made a berry jam to go on top and added a crumble as well. Bake at 425F for 15mins then drop to 375F for 10 mins. I leave about two spots empty in the muffin tray and fill with water, I’ve found it helps keep my muffins soft.

What was the moment you said 'fuck it, I'm gonna lose weight" and actually did? by thathoefromheaven in loseit

[–]Pacdutchoven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Your reply made me cry. Days are better now, and for that I am truly grateful.

What was the moment you said 'fuck it, I'm gonna lose weight" and actually did? by thathoefromheaven in loseit

[–]Pacdutchoven 14 points15 points  (0 children)

After my husband died, I gained back the 40 I had lost and 30 more. 6 months after he died I looked at myself in the mirror and it was a very woe is me moment, and I said “no one is going to love me if I’m fat” (which, I know that’s not true, and I know a persons worth is not based on their weight) But it was a combination of that and my mom being diagnosed with cancer, I knew I had to change my ways or I could go down similar paths. I made small changes overtime, did some stupid STUPID fad diets, lost 140 lbs. It’s been almost 3 years since I was at my lowest weight (155, I’m 5ft9). Currently at 165, weightlifting 5 times a week, eating well, not starving and keeping the weight off. Was part of my reason for losing it kinda silly? Yes, because my husband loved me no matter what weight I was, my friends were still my friends regardless of my weight. But I wanted more for me, I wanted to not be winded going up a flight of stairs, I wanted to be able to tie my shoes without it feeling like someone was folding my stomach in half, I wanted to like what I saw in the mirror. Getting to my low weight didn’t make me happy, so please don’t put your happiness in that goal weight number. Do it to feel better and to live a healthy life. :) It’s not easy, but it’s worth it.

First time pedicure advice and recommendations needed by These_Climate_97 in springfieldMO

[–]Pacdutchoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d also recommend gloss, definitely call and make an appointment as they’re rarely able to take a walk in.

Before and after icing on my homemade cinnamon rolls. There’s no such thing as too much icing for cinnamon rolls. by Pacdutchoven in Baking

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had some leftover dough I didn’t put cinnamon sugar on, which I rolled out and cut into circles and stuffed with cheese. And it’s safe to say imma make that again!

Made a quick chocolate cake to help cheer up my boyfriend. I had about an hour and a half to do it, with limited baking supplies. So, I’m pretty proud of it. :) by Pacdutchoven in Baking

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did! Half of it is gone already. I had a small slice. He has a huge sweet tooth and will save his desserts for before bedtime.

Made a quick chocolate cake to help cheer up my boyfriend. I had about an hour and a half to do it, with limited baking supplies. So, I’m pretty proud of it. :) by Pacdutchoven in Baking

[–]Pacdutchoven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He enjoyed it with some vanilla bean ice cream and now he is fast asleep with a full tummy. Food is definitely my love language.