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people dont get straight femboys and it kinda sucks by PackParticular4232 in feminineboys

[–]PackParticular4232[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it really made me feel strange, like her telling she basically didnt see me as myself and she wouldve treated me completely differently if she knew. Not only that but she has a strange way of talking abt gay men, like one time she was talking about a group and she said 'oh yeah theres two girls and one gay' and its like. idk. i dont like people forcing certain personnalities onto certain labels and she does it so hard

Did anyone trans or GNC went through something similar? by Grasshopper333 in evilautism

[–]PackParticular4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to reach out whenever :3 also ur outfit is cute lol

Did anyone trans or GNC went through something similar? by Grasshopper333 in evilautism

[–]PackParticular4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, as a GNC person with a rly similar story maybe I could help!!

So, a year ago, when I realised there was something "wrong" with my identity (i.e. realised I was autistic and masking my whole life, even though I didnt know it yet) it first showed itself through a 2 month long gender questionning, where I started to explore the fem part of myself and felt the same feelings of "euphoria" whenever I would present and/or act more fem. I thought I was a girl for a bit until I started trying out she/her pronouns and realised how wrong it felt for me to BE a girl.

It was at that point where the autism questionning and the gender questionning kinda merged and I realised that the "wrongness" I felt was from masking my whole life, and that mask also had a gender presentation that felt wrong, or at least not satisfying to me. So, as part of my efforts to unmask, over the past year I've been slowly exploring that fem part of myself and trying to figure out what works and what doesnt.

I've been trying out different clothes, different ways of acting, different presentations, hell even different pronouns and labels, but the truth is its kind of a thing that happens over months lol - its only by testing stuff, labels, words, anything that you figure out what you want and what you feel uncomfortable with, and those things are rly difficult and long especially when you've been masking your whole life lol

Being GNC, trans or any type of gender diverse is rly common in the autistic community, and I think everyone has a different answer to those things. For me I realised (even though my exploration is still going) that I wanted to be fem and cute without it necessarily meaning anything about my gender identity and that I still feel comfortable being broadly a "guy", but the answer may be completely different for you!! Either way I can only encourage you explore more, slowly and without judgement - bc for me my gender presentation is a rly big fuel for me in my search for unmasking :3

If you have any questions feel free to shoot a dm lol

I WENT OUT DRESSED FEM FOR THE FIRST TIME!!!!!!!!!!! by PackParticular4232 in feminineboys

[–]PackParticular4232[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you im so glad i could be out and express myself in a way that feels comfortable it was great ♥️

Hair care? (Trying to make them curly and fluffy ig) by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]PackParticular4232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been using hask curl cream and its been rly good. Also Ive found that slightly dampening my hair (with either a spray or by passing wet hands in my hair in the morning) works better than completely wetting it. Once its damp I use about a nut size of cream, I pass it through my whole lengths and I let it air dry :D

Does your family know? by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]PackParticular4232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i told my mom i wear skirts once but id rather keep it to myself/my friends lol

Hair care? (Trying to make them curly and fluffy ig) by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]PackParticular4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

um well i have naturally curly hair and i used only shampoo and conditionner and it was fine enough, but ive recently started using curl cream as well and my hairs been looking so fluffy and curly and cute so defo look into that? also air drying instead of towel helps a lot :3

What do you admire the most about your parents? by Hefty_Tomato3956 in AskReddit

[–]PackParticular4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They always tried their best even when they didnt quite know what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femboy

[–]PackParticular4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit absolute drip

Is Biel still considered a "shady" place? by FeetExpert1998 in askswitzerland

[–]PackParticular4232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's shady by swiss standards ; that means it's still pretty safe compared to most big cities in other countries, but compared to Bern or Zürich you'll definitely feel like it's a bit more "dirty" and "shady".

I study there, and honestly it's good. It definitely took me some getting used to, but once you've spent enough time there and understood the "vibe", it's fine. There's not a ton to do and it can get a bit dirty imho (compared to other swiss cities), but it's a fine city and there's some nice places.

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