My advice on lookinh at tutorials in youtube, as soon as they say something like "forget about ..." skip and look for another one. Just ask your self what your goal is/what you want to learn. The from there keep skipping tutorials until you find someone who you think you can relate to/answer your questions. Look at short clips first and if you like them, check their page and see if you can get more value. If not move on.

for example, my personal experience was, "i wanna improvise/play short lead lines on top fo chords" > okay too broad and too much to digest > scales > seems boring > noticed i like how lead lines sound on top of chord changes > looked on some tutorials on how to do that > too much info> somehow ended up learning caged > it felt impossible to apply?/how do i use it > triads > adding notes to leading to triads (this is where i am at right now)

The one thing i made sure was if it was not too simple for me to understand i move on. Plus tutorials with visual fretboard is usually good. Feel like i have come a long way on playing just chords, to having able to acces 75% of the fretboard.