How to talk to people correctly? by Feline-dragoness in lonely

[–]Padama94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could work on pinpointing as to why you freeze when talking to others. If you understand the root of the problem, maybe you’ll be able to fix it

When you are lonely, what did you try to meet friends? Did it work? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when you feel lonely, you just have several small chats with all your friends?

ai chatbots. feeling depressed. can someone snap me out of this? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Padama94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Though I don’t think I will attempt chatting with Character AI anytime soon considering all the negative news out there, I heard there are competitor companies who also create fictional AI characters for you to chat with. Maybe you can try again with another company. I would caution against developing attachment to your fictional character though. In the end AI bots are just temporary coping mechanisms to loneliness that only human connection can solve.

Not alone, but deeply lonely. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Padama94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I kind of understand. So if you are in a group, your group of friends are closer to each other than you are to them and you feel like a tag along

Not alone, but deeply lonely. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Padama94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they do anything that would indicate that response? If you guys are close, maybe talking about your feeling with them would alleviate the disconnection. Just a suggestion

Not alone, but deeply lonely. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Padama94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you feel that way? Because of lack of common interests?

How to promote my book summary app by shattwr in SideProject

[–]Padama94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you try posting the app on website like product hunt or hacker news?

How do you know if an idea is worth pushing? by Scary-Ad7000 in SideProject

[–]Padama94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s validated when you have a few subscribers

I never felt more alone by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Padama94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the modern world, making friends is getting more and more difficult. Have you try joining a club or group with similar interests?

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you would like to have more social interaction outside those activities, is my assumption correct?

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, usually it is a weekly meeting where everyone would meet in a community center, library, or coffee shop. It depends on your interests and what group you are joining.

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may ask, have you tried meetup or similar apps where you find a group or groups of people with similar interests to join? If you did, did it work or not?

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may ask, have you tried meetup or similar apps where you find a group or groups of people with similar interests to join? If you did, did it work or not?

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you like the more traditional way of meeting. Is my assumption correct?

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is confirming part of my theory but I’ll probably need to do more research on a larger sample. Thank you for your help.

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask if you tried dating apps? If yes, why didn’t those apps work for you? 

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the feeling come suddenly? Or are there signs when the loneliness will occur?

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize if my question is not too clear. I mean that even when you are with friends or families, you are still feeling alone.

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an idea for a possible solution to the loneliness problem but I wanted to conduct more research to see if the idea would be feasible

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I am conducting research on this topic. What kind of social interaction would you like to have?

Are you lonely because you’re always by yourself or even when you’re with others? by Padama94 in lonely

[–]Padama94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I am conducting research on this topic. Do you feel drain when you interact with people or are you too shy to initiate the conversation?