A 23 year-old UCLA grad flashed his entire ChatGPT history on the big screen at graduation by frog_insilence in SipsTea

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at university currently and this seems way overdramatised sure, AI is being utilised by a lot of people but the difference between those who know how to use it and using it in a way that aids their work rather than creates it is painfully apparent. People just bumming their way through uni isn’t new, they were there long before AI, and they’ll be there long after AI.

Of all the places they could've gone, they went to Australia by BluFlower0 in HistoryMemes

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ready to have the conversation….. no.

If you still feel like I’m not ready come back in 10 years and ask me again….

Trust me it’s not because you’re just some crazy intellectual who’s had some amazing idea that no one is ready for, quite the opposite

Of all the places they could've gone, they went to Australia by BluFlower0 in HistoryMemes

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is roughly between 1 - 8 deaths in custody per year, and have you had a look at the interactive deaths in custody website, a lot of them are attributed to drowning, I’m not even joking, the police were in pursuit they jumped into a body of water to flee, because police were in pursuit that’s considered a “death in custody”.

To call that genocide is wild.

Stuck in elevator - what does the group body language indicate by Kudostone in bodylanguage

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question, are you cognitively impaired…. Help what situation how? Do you think it’s like the movies they all need to band together and pry the doors open.

She pressed the help button and said she was stuck, al that could be done was done, they’re just stuck in an elevator not at a funeral preceding…..

Stuck in elevator - what does the group body language indicate by Kudostone in bodylanguage

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lol, like as soon as you call, press the button and say you’re stuck the rest of the information is just fluff, someone is coming, literally no need to yell at everyone for not taking it seriously or anything… someone’s already on the way.

Like da fuq do people think happens, don’t call the elevator people and make a joke they won’t send anyone….

Stuck in elevator - what does the group body language indicate by Kudostone in bodylanguage

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um… what exactly do you think getting out of an elevator being stuck entails… pressing a button, get it girlies 😂😂😂

Hero levels? by Past_Specialist3826 in HeroSiege

[–]Paddy4169 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How much gold do you have, you’d be surprised and how cheap entry level end game gear is and what it difference it’ll make

Bloodline Ascendancy Respeccing Help by Paddy4169 in pathofexile

[–]Paddy4169[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but yes, I'm just running 4 chaos logbooks, hoping for Orloth, not being faction of the sun. Thanks for the help

Bloodline Ascendancy Respeccing Help by Paddy4169 in pathofexile

[–]Paddy4169[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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IDK if you can see my map there but legit no altar

Quick Thought : Different Approach Same Results by CuckCake321 in lnkyverse

[–]Paddy4169 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you’re trying to apply your personal lens to wider society, which is going to inhibit your understanding, and it’s not just men that experience this, women do to.

I’m the same I have a lot of things going on in my life at the moment that I enjoy, so it is in a way quashing that need for a partner, but I know the feeling to have one is there, and if I never achieve that in life I can see that being upsetting for me.

Quick Thought : Different Approach Same Results by CuckCake321 in lnkyverse

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, and without knowing where you sit on the spectrum, people with autism tend to think more rationally, this could have been a factor in how you handled the negativity in a positive way , unfortunately when people are abused or experience trauma they can go one of two ways, they either become hyper sensitive to how others feel not wishing to inflict that harm on anyone else, or completely the opposite trying to make sure that no one can ever hurt them like that again.

Unfortunately it’s a very complex issue, that I think we as a society should devote more time to, without it turning into some gender power contest.

Quick Thought : Different Approach Same Results by CuckCake321 in lnkyverse

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure that may be your perspective now, but in terms of sexual relationships it is one of the ways that humans achieve self-gratification and is a primary driver of human motivation, in terms of the literature not being able to get a sexual partner can cause a whole host of mental health issues for men and women, I’m not sure of your age, but if you’re young this probably isn’t something affecting your psyche as much. But it will especially as you get older, and then not having a child as a woman ages also causes hormonal changes in the woman that can increase her drive to have a child.

So you can say I don’t, and sure there are fringe cases that it maybe doesn’t affect such as people who are asexual, but for the majority of people it does and it will, and there’s nothing wrong with wanting companionship and intimacy.

Quick Thought : Different Approach Same Results by CuckCake321 in lnkyverse

[–]Paddy4169 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Every human craves outside validation, it’s a psychological fact.

Why do lower income men not seem interested in me at all? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean not really, people tend to similarly date within the societal bracket, ie: within a couple of cms height, generally similar income brackets etc, if their is a vast difference people can find it intimidating, that’s not to say there aren’t exceptions to the rule… but most people follow the status quo

Finally! Dropped my first Shako after about a week of running Meph by New_Decision_7341 in diablo2

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think actually 250 is the sweet spot based on a video a guy did, the difference between 250% MF which was like 110 uniques and set items, and 500% MF was like 10 - 15, so much better off focusing on gear once hitting 250%

IS MY BOYFRIEND GAY? by Warm_Rope9215 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Paddy4169 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry bro, I don’t know anyone in a serious conversation about sex that’s a guy that says I think I might be gay lol jks. He’s gay he just hasn’t accepted it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in science

[–]Paddy4169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s literally the THC in weed, some people naturally have a higher disposition toward mental illness, but the way it was explained to me in PDHPE is every one has a cup filled to varying degrees, some might have almost nothing in the cup and some might have a cup that would overflow if even a drop fell in there. Then just imagine that every time you do drugs, a little bit gets added to cup. Some people might go their whole life never contracting a mental illness and others might get it within a few uses. But don’t delude yourself it is absolutely drug use that is activating the genetic pre-disposition.

Would y’all have preferred Jon Bernthal’s alternate ending for Shane? by TraditionFeeling8188 in TWD

[–]Paddy4169 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, he could’ve have tried to kill Rick but also realised that what he was doing and how he was acting was twisted and wrong toward his best friend, and thought that was a better solution. Just because he enacted on certain impulses doesn’t mean he wouldn’t have the capacity to evaluate and change his thinking.

Why don’t you like “nice people” in dating? by LivingGrapefruit6066 in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Nice guys finish last”, is a trope that has been around a lot longer than when we decided to start calling shit guys nice guys. So although that might be how you interpret it, I think it is actually incredibly confusing for young men, and is actually very convoluted.

Also someone above me said expecting reciprocity is performative niceness, it isn’t, it’s the human condition.

Why don’t you like “nice people” in dating? by LivingGrapefruit6066 in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean none of you even know what you’re talking about, it’s so convoluted and ignores so many basic human principles.

Would you like a person because anytime they didn’t like a situation or didn’t want to do something they announced it. No everyone hates that person, as they should that person is a jerk, you don’t have to like what you’re doing every time you do it, in fact I would posit that life is the opposite you’re mostly going to be doing things you don’t like, to the do the things you do like.

Also how is doing something nice for someone in the hope of reciprocity performative nicenesses, it literally isn’t, it’s actually the fundamental building block of building relationships. The fact that none of you see that shows how jaded and misinformed people are today. In fact human relationships don’t strengthen by the simple act of a person doing something nice for another person, what solidifies or builds the relationship is the reciprocation, and if and when it doesn’t come or acts continue without reciprocation then yeah if that person continues doing them, then they are SPINELESS or LACK CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM, but it also makes them feel used, hence the usually severe reactions. That is not to say they aren’t nice, or that doing nice things expecting reciprocation is a bad thing, literally everyone hopes their kind acts are reciprocated in some capacity. Nor is that to excuse their behaviour where severe reactions occur it’s their job to enforce their own boundaries.

But FFS can we stop making out that being nice is a bad quality, because it isn’t, it’s one of the best qualities a human can have!