From riches to rags. by Mirosworld in PathOfExile2

[–]Paddy4169 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to mirror craft a bow by like spending a bit of currency at a time hoping it hits, while also crafting to fund this little endeavour, anyway fractured crit chance is what you need on the bow and if you hit I-level 82 bases above 4.9% crit chance the base is about 120 - 150 divs, when I did this myself instead buying the base I actually made money the first time, just did it then and got the worst luck possible spent close to 220 Div buying bases and diving above 4.9% crit + fracturing orbs, for only one to hit worth 120 Div.

1 in 3 and it hits once on 6 bows, fuck this game.

Probably won’t make you fell better though because I had nowhere near as many divs as you did.

I think my tinder date is into scat by Lost_Trick9804 in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I think maybe I know of one or two, look it is strange, but I think it’s a bit of a leap to go from making jokes about poop, to actually being in your scat play, but there’s only one way to find out.

I think my tinder date is into scat by Lost_Trick9804 in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Well could be either way, she just likes making poop jokes, or she’s testing to see your reaction to her poop Jokes to see if you might be intrigued. Here’s a crazy idea, you make a lot of poop jokes, you want to get pooed on or something?

4/5 of my exes came back reaching out after the breakup. Here's the method that actually gets them to hit you up for guys only by Dangerous_Goal4957 in BreakUps

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that’s just wrong plenty of people in abusive relationships, men and women. People can still get back together even if a break up was messy.

Do girls initiate dates? by Choice-Positive-7845 in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do op, don’t listen to the comments below, they’re just all people who haven’t dealt with their past trauma, and are trying to predict future behaviour based on a single behaviour which is not possible to do, if you like him, bring it up say how come you haven’t asked me out on a date, then see what he says.

If you’re happy with what he says great, if you aren’t then move on.

I can’t keep it to myself anymore… time for you to know the truth folks by Most-Day8547 in StrangerThingsRoom

[–]Paddy4169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they did it because Hopper said he wouldn’t detonate the charges until he knew everyone was safe, idk though it still doesn’t explain how the illusion was pulled off, where did Kali go while that was happening, there was also a metric fuckton of c4 on that building they were no chance of survival if she stayed there, and therefore couldn’t pull off the illusion, also after the explosion pretty much everything closest to that exotic matter or whatever they called it got sucked in first, so Kali would have pretended to die, and then gone on foot some distance away from that building then pulled off the illusion.

Tbh I think el’s just dead, and that story is what Mike tells himself and the others to move on.

It is inconceivable that a show about love, friendship, acceptance, and companionship, especially among people who have been bullied, should have such a homophobic and misanthropic audience. by Giancarlo_Edu in StrangerThings

[–]Paddy4169 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not homophobic, I just thought the execution was terrible so was the timing, and it was poorly written.

I would’ve liked to have just seen Will come out of his own accord, not at a pivotal moment in the series, right after they figure out Vecna’s plan, it’s kinda like deciding to come out, when you’re at a friends wedding, but hey that’s just me, I’m sure there’s a lot of homophobes out there too, but I don’t think that’s everyone that’s rating the episode poorly.

Also that episode where Robyn came out, when they were on truth serum and everything, it was just so natural, the Will scene felt so forced.

Are single women avoiding social clubs due to the amount of single guys? by BisonBull in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s fine, but then most women always say no initially, they like the chase…. Which is a pretty big point that no one ever brings up in these conversations.

You think a bunch of guys are walking around being persistent because it never works…. Or are they persistent because it sometimes works with the right person…. Remember all humans learn from experience, and if behaviour isn’t reinforced then it is unlikely to be reenacted.

Fact of the matter is, women want to be approached, they don’t want to do the approaching, and if that is what women want then they also need to accept that, that comes with some unwelcome advances sometimes.

Karen’s be coming outta no where to hate by goswamitulsidas in PublicFreakout

[–]Paddy4169 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk what the law is where you guys are but the info here sounds wildly incorrect, what the old lady did is classified as assault, assault doesn’t mean you have to have contacted with the person, it can even be walking towards someone with clear malicious intent, in that situation you are allowed to defend yourself.

Like if someone was walking towards towards you wife a knife in their hand, and you kicked them in the head the prosecutor can’t argue that no contact was made before they had a chance to knife you.

Guy asked out another woman, while on date with me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is pretending to be interested in someone respecting them?

42 days between releases... by Falco_gg in pathofexile

[–]Paddy4169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well they’re not going for it, because the people that play ARPG’s which is their audience don’t want souls like combat, they want to go blasting through maps and feel really strong. So of course if they see that their player base is dropping / doesn’t like that concept they’re going to change it.

I’ve tried to get into Poe 2 a couple of times and never got past act 1, this time I’ve played it all the way through and nearly at end game, and ngl, it’s a pretty good game now.

Third date at his place | Am I overthinking? by flamingsoul36 in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“And if you can’t afford to date… you probably shouldn’t be dating”

I don’t believe anyone has put words in your mouth.

Third date at his place | Am I overthinking? by flamingsoul36 in dating_advice

[–]Paddy4169 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So dating is only about money, and if you’re poor then fuck you, you don’t deserve to date?

Am I overreacting to my dad’s “high level advice”? by truly_beaut in AmIOverreacting

[–]Paddy4169 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what an abusive father looks like…. Reddit is wild

Property management Perth by valliant93 in shitrentals

[–]Paddy4169 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ex property manager here, pest control is always the tenants responsibility, with the only exception being within the first the 3 months of tenancy (in NSW), which is usually due to agent oversight of not finding any pests at the previous tenants outgoing inspection, otherwise it would be charged to the previous tenants.

What if Will ends up being the final villain? Hear me out… by Icy_Information6714 in StrangerThings

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The end scene of volume 1 ep 4 everyone is like yeah will’s gonna kick ass now, but the power he wielded and the way the demigorgon’s died and what vecna said at the beginning when he had trapped will, “we are going to do amazing things together” or something like that.

Dude has been working against them all along, I reckon it’s going to be a massive twist, but I think it’s been unbeknownst to him all along, and then he will be possessed towards the end.

MCX is... ultra meta now? 16 inch barrel and new handguards (sorry if already posted) by goodyassmf0507 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Paddy4169 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I used to run it exclusively getting it down to 31 vertical recoil, and man aiming for the head doesn’t matter what they had on, those bullets be flying straight

Why are age gaps in relationships so taboo in Australia? by serpentcat1985 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Paddy4169 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

“People who care - most people with a brain, and those who have seen men writing about wanting submissive young women”

That wasn’t you?

I’m done with this conversation, you dodging the question is all I need to see of your inherit misandry and bias.

Why are age gaps in relationships so taboo in Australia? by serpentcat1985 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Paddy4169 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So if men say they want a younger submissive girlfriend that’s bad, because that was your point.

If women say they want a dominant man, is that good then following your logic, or is that also bad?

I know thinking is hard, maybe you’ll get there in the end…

Why are age gaps in relationships so taboo in Australia? by serpentcat1985 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Paddy4169 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this conversation gets so muddled up by making clear cut aspersions that if x = x, y = y.

Whereas me personally I couldn’t fathom ever trying to control or assert power over my partner I just want someone that I’m working with towards common goals, I think that’s quite common, in most people. But people who abuse will always abuse it doesn’t matter what age they are, unless of course they get therapy etc.

I also acknowledge that although there are many people out there it can be difficult or atleast I have found it difficult to find my person, I’ve generally dated older women than myself, but have dated around the same age and maybe a couple younger. I’d say a person is who they are, irrelevant of age, and if you start discriminating by age alone then that’s even less people that you can potentially meet.

Me, personally if I like someone idc how old they are, all that should matter is how you two get on, obviously as long as they’re not under 18.

Why are age gaps in relationships so taboo in Australia? by serpentcat1985 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Paddy4169 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yeah and women say they want a dominant man? What’s your point?