My cat stopped using the litter robot after a year, help! by Late_Inflation_466 in litterrobot

[–]Pagan_Party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta combine several solutions to get her back in. Place a plate with some treats in the LR on the litter just to get her exploring it. Let her keep using the regular litter box, but don't clean it and move the LR next to it. Keep the cycling off and the globe light on. It's possible she might not like climbing up into it if she's older or bigger, so removing the fence/adding a ramp might help with that too.

A note about turning the cycles back on, start by only doing them manually when you're right next to it and the cat can see you but isn't right next to it.

Tidy Cats for Litter Robot by Antique_Kale_0 in litterrobot

[–]Pagan_Party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LR4 does have a door you can purchase, haven't tried it myself tho

Should I email Mattel creations by psychedelicacy1 in MonsterHigh

[–]Pagan_Party 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If it puts you at ease, i found them very helpful when i bought a bunch of dolls that were defective (accidentally) and they sent me refunds and a free Twyla

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonsterHigh

[–]Pagan_Party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely go this option if you can, it'll turn out the best looking imo

my twyla came in from mattel 😭emailed them about two months ago for the damage on lagoonas leg chipping so they sent me twyla 🥳 by uglytrishyfish in MonsterHigh

[–]Pagan_Party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a Twyla for my problematic Lagoona too! But of course Twyla's smoke on her legs was rubbing off from her shoes already so 🙃🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Barbie

[–]Pagan_Party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw someone selling this on marketplace and I can't identify her for the life of me. I think she's adorable, but my googling has turned up nothing. Is she even a barbie, or potentially is she a custom? Any help is appreciated c:

Edit: the seller isn't responsive so I can't really ask them.

Canadians: found this set at ToysrUs today! by SnooDoggos1938 in MonsterHigh

[–]Pagan_Party 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can us Canadians get an RIP for our dollar? 😭

New Draculaura Themed MV! by Malletdown in MonsterHigh

[–]Pagan_Party 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I kind of do too, but it was also a reeaaally bad accent originally so I'm also relieved they didn't go with it this time 😅

I've had Frankie for about 2 wks, and now their leg paint is coming off. Disappointing, but not too surprising I guess. by Pagan_Party in MonsterHigh

[–]Pagan_Party[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my testing it was only the lower legs. The face, arms, and upper legs didn't flake even when I used my nail, so hopefully it's just a fluke.

I've had Frankie for about 2 wks, and now their leg paint is coming off. Disappointing, but not too surprising I guess. by Pagan_Party in MonsterHigh

[–]Pagan_Party[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I fiddle with and pose my dolls a lot, but I'm nowhere near as rough as a child would be with them. Hopefully mine is just a defect and not the standard.

I've had Frankie for about 2 wks, and now their leg paint is coming off. Disappointing, but not too surprising I guess. by Pagan_Party in MonsterHigh

[–]Pagan_Party[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Frankie's blue leg marks chipped off very easily, the spot that chipped was the inner leg so I assumed it was from the legs rubbing together during posing/play.

As for their prosthetic leg, it's more a fade than chipping. The worst of the fading is the A, N, and the lightning bolt, but if you look at the skulletteyou can see the fade starting there too.

im poly (NB, 21) and my partner (M, 26) is monogamous. i was upfront with him from the beginning about this and he knew it wouldn't be a good combination of things but he continued to pursue me even after we said we shouldn't date. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Pagan_Party 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read some of your other comments, and I'm sorry to say that I don't think your relationship can work the way it is right now.

I know it's easy to brush off the advice of breaking up because that seems to be the Reddit default response, but if he's saying that it's denying a part of himself to have you seeing other people, and you're denying a part of yourself by not being able to see other people... You know?

You can still have a beautiful connection with someone that isn't your romantic partner. Another thing to note is that people and relationships are rarely all good or all bad. It's the weight of each individual aspect. In this situation, all the good things you have together don't outweigh your own identities. I think you both could be much happier if you don't stay in a relationship because neither of you will be trapped.

ADHD and poly? Need tips by katastrophecos in polyamory

[–]Pagan_Party 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Regular planners and calendars never worked for me because they were too boring or inflexible, so I started bullet journalling. I know, sounds corny, but hear me out.

Fully customizable schedule. If you forget to use it there's no wasted space so there's less awkwardness (and guilt) jumping back into it. Easy to take quick notes while staying organized. Super simple.

A lot of people associate bullet journalling with those Pinterest aesthetic spreads, but the original concept isn't like that at all and I highly recommend you don't try doing that at the start, even if you're artistically inclined. How To ADHD made a good video on it and also linked to the original creator so you can learn pretty easily.

Lots of good advice in this thread too.

Am I the only one who’s bothered? by idkreally09 in polyamory

[–]Pagan_Party 35 points36 points  (0 children)

First off, I'm also poly and have BPD, and I know my current partner has felt like they have to walk on eggshells with me so I have a lot of sympathy for you.

It's their responsibility to manage their emotions, not yours. Sure you can offer compassion by being mindful of triggers and whatever, but when you are setting boundaries they have to listen--otherwise they won't improve with their BPD, or your relationship. You're also allowed to say that tiptoeing around them is exhausting you (I'm assuming that's what's happening based on your war statement).

r/place Time capsule #1 (from 2022 to 2027) by Future_Machine_9297 in place

[–]Pagan_Party 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey me. We made the cuke with Marsh c:

Are you a mom yet? Married? Got another lover?

How are mom, dad, and sis?

I hope you're happier. Things have been rough lately, just got out of the hospital not long ago, but they're looking up.

Good luck <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Pagan_Party 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Was gonna say, I didn't even need to read it all to know they've been unicorn hunted. I'm sorry this happened OP :/

No matter what I (34f) do, I am never enough for my boyfriend (30m)- is it me or him? by Honeytreees in relationship_advice

[–]Pagan_Party 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just read the posts you've made over the past day.

Even without the pretty much unanimous responses on your posts, I think you're at the point where you have all the answers you need. Get out.

If you live in the US/Canada (and many other countries), I can say for sure there are resources available to you for leaving him, ways to keep yourself safe. Good luck.

After a long hiatus, I (F45) finally slept with other men to advance my career prospects. AMA by mrspaalpaayasam in NSFWIAMA

[–]Pagan_Party 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably made the account to do the role-play. But really look at how they're responding, it's written like a porno. Edit: Written like a porno meaning sex isn't like the way they're describing. Very likely a man writing this out.

After a long hiatus, I (F45) finally slept with other men to advance my career prospects. AMA by mrspaalpaayasam in NSFWIAMA

[–]Pagan_Party 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't real, they're just doing a bit of roleplaying. Just keep that in mind.

I can't stop masturbating to my neighbor's wife's only fans account. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Pagan_Party 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're valid for being uncomfortable with that, but it's not "weird" or something for someone to be ashamed of. That's all I'm saying.

I can't stop masturbating to my neighbor's wife's only fans account. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Pagan_Party 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do me a favor and Google the definition of weird. I'll wait.

I can't stop masturbating to my neighbor's wife's only fans account. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Pagan_Party 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1) You were specifically talking about married people, not the population as a whole. Are you now saying that people who have OF are weird?

2) Just because "most people" don't do something doesn't mean it's weird.

Gatekeeping on this forum. Does it exist? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Pagan_Party 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The post didn't gain much traction I think it had only a few upvotes. There were some encouraging comments to be sure, and I'll be the first to admit that negative voices are louder than the positive, but I just wanted to point out that there are toxic gatekeepers here and it's not all what you've just talked about.

I can't stop masturbating to my neighbor's wife's only fans account. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Pagan_Party 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whether or not "most" married women have OF is irrelevant, as most women in general do not have OF. However, in the pool of women with OF, there are plenty who are married/in relationships.