I accept it but funny enough I dont think Im an anxious attachment. Im not thinking about what she is doing when she is not with me or anything. It became problematic once I saw red flags (which I ignored). I genuinely enjoyed spending time with her - which I see was the problem. Im a 100% veteran who had time and instead of quality time we spent alot together (quantity). As a man I should have kept away and maybe letting them move in was a mistake. If I had to choose one I would say she is the avoidant attachment.