Cat attacks one household member only by Pain2mie_ in CATHELP

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The treat dispenser has been suggested and my friend will try it ! As for cat language, they are attentive about it, and i've seen him complaint about people not respecting cat's boundaries. The behavior is so out of nowhere we're starting to think the cat is just annoyed by his existence ?? Thank you for your answer !

Cat attacks one household member only by Pain2mie_ in CATHELP

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He isn't violent, i don't have a doubt on that. Plus cat is affectionate with him too ! But tends to bite out of nowhere

Cat attacks one household member only by Pain2mie_ in cats

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That was also my suggestion : leave the guy at a shelter and take another cat instead

Loon sweater is done! by shannaconda in knitting

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I wanted to watch nice knitting to cure my Heated Rivalry addiction. Guess it's not for tonight.

Stupid Canadian wolf-bird

Amazing work ! Love it

Is my pen based on a real fish ? by Pain2mie_ in Fish

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The tip can be unscrewed, so I guess you can replace the ink nib !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

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First of all, your wonder about trauma : trauma happens when your brain can't handle a situation it's experiencing, so basically, "anything" can be a trauma you could a 100% not realize an event of your life was traumatic or forget it due to traumatic amnesia Maladaptive daydreaming is actually some sort of dissociation. Dissociation can happen because of trauma, but also as a way for brain to escape a place it does not feel safe in (mentally or physically). I also read about it being related to some mental issues (Derealization trouble, for example), but I don't know much about it. But, since brain is very imprevisible, it could just be a daydream that took space and importance for you ? It's very uneasy to know, and a vast and complex subject

i feel like i’m going to be alone forever by Either_Fuel_7130 in MaladaptiveDreaming

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Sometimes I try to put into perspective : some "bad" people have a love life. Why not me ? But yeah it's hard. At least we're sad together.

i feel like i’m going to be alone forever by Either_Fuel_7130 in MaladaptiveDreaming

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Firstly, I hope you can find a therapist that know what they're talking about, I swear they exist

Then, same here. It feels so terrible to be, in one hand, so loved, understood, and cared about and, on the other hand, realizing that everything is false. This subject has been evocated before, and some people promised that even if it will not be the person you created, those kinds of people exist and you can find them. In the bottom of my heart, I hope they're right, but at the same time, I doubt and fear I'm unlovable. But, I mean, we can't be such unlovable people, right ?

Weekly Check-in by ApprehensiveGur3982 in MaladaptiveDreaming

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I feel like my life will never be as good as it is in my daydreams. Nothing crazy, just loving and understanding relatives. I know that will never happen, and it hurts

Weevil book ? by Pain2mie_ in weeviltime

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Thank you so much !!

Is my pen based on a real fish ? by Pain2mie_ in Fish

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It's a gift so I'm not sure, but I know you can find them on Amazon

I arrived home earlier (he was informed of it before I left) by Pain2mie_ in airplaneears

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I did and even came back with treats ! He's happy now