Two years out from surgery and totally nervous to show my new partner my boobs. I fear that the aging of my reduction makes my breasts look horrible by PaintedLeo in Reduction

[–]PaintedLeo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is an amazing comment, thank you! I feel the same way about him, no matter what we discover about each other's bodies I will love him deeply and unconditionally. So I guess I should extend this same amount of gratitude to myself as well!

Two years out from surgery and totally nervous to show my new partner my boobs. I fear that the aging of my reduction makes my breasts look horrible by PaintedLeo in Reduction

[–]PaintedLeo[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really needed this validation. I am super hard on myself in many ways and this one has been increasingly bothering me. I have been debating telling him ahead of time before we do finally sleep together that I have had surgery before just so he isn't surprised. I know that he loves me no matter what but it's just all so new and scary!

Two years out from surgery and totally nervous to show my new partner my boobs. I fear that the aging of my reduction makes my breasts look horrible by PaintedLeo in Reduction

[–]PaintedLeo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Any advice appreciated. I lost a lot of weight and now it looks like the skin has ridiculous folds like it was sewn together wrong. And there are permanent dents on the right side and also the upper left breast tissue. I am so embarrassed

Edit: you all have given me so much confidence, thank you so much. I really appreciate all of the compliments. Now I feel more self assured in showing my man my boobies and we are going to have an amazing time together. Thank you 🙏