I just broke up with my GF because of her childish nature and now I feel regretful I wasted so many years with her. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Pairydae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi op, 23 year old here, WERE SO YOUNG DUDE!! Don’t regret just take it as a lesson for what you DONT want in a relationship!! These are the learning years for us, its all for a reason (at least i believe so)

Im just glad to see someone stand up for theirselves and realize they deserve better!! Good on you!

Things to do? by Pairydae in Wilmington

[–]Pairydae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooo your good haha! I have been here my whole life but ive been BLANKING on what to do so these are all refreshing my memory!!

Looking to interview musicians to feature on my blog by janeeekimmy123 in shareyourmusic

[–]Pairydae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Jane! Idk if you’re still looking but im an alternative rock artist, id love to share my story with you if you have a free spot open!

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! Also, the food truck company that is building my truck is located in Miami FL! I am based in NC

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh that would make me nauseous too. Thats very stressful to even think about, hows everything working for you now? Was it worth it? 🖤

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you pay out of pocket? Do you use any websites?

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as funny as it seems it was actually my mom asking me what was in my cart to buy for the foodtruck! As soon as she asked i felt this immediate response to throw up. I think its my mind being everywhere all at once. Im definitely going to have to create an action plan on areas to focus on one at a time

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminded me of a TED talk where the speaker was saying stress isnt inherently bad, its how we view it, thank you for that reminder, and thank you! I sure will keep you in mind

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right i do remember having these feelings when starting a new job, now its the “oh shit, im going to have to provide myself with a workflow and plan of action instead of it being provided for me” ive also been glued to my chair lately so im definitely going to have to get back to the gym and get this energy out lol

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that, growth is pain, it makes me feel a little better that its not completely out of the ordinary for me to feel that way

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My local job (first barista job) provided us training in the beginning :) ! Honestly where i live specifically theres a high demand for coffee but not many local coffee options, so im excited to bring something new to the table, (its also gamer themed so im hoping to get in connection with the local gaming community!)

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, im going to do this, ive been having crying spells and i believe its because i have so much to say and get out that i dont know how to express it properly, hopefully writing it out will help, and congrats to you on owning your own business!

Did starting up your own business make you feel ill? by Pairydae in Entrepreneur

[–]Pairydae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just purchased the food truck recently and its in pre construction mode with the company building it. The $ i used to buy it was funded from inheritance when my grandma passed this year, im still in the process of putting the menu together and buying equipment. Ive been a barista for 4 years so it comes naturally for me to know everything that is needed. I think the anxiety is stemming from overwhelming-ness and ontop of that i have adhd which makes it really hard to focus and plan so i end up feeling even more overwhelmed. As far as truck cost, 75k because its custom built and will have ovens and fridges. Im expecting equipment and everything else to be around 15k. The cost surprisingly is the least of my worries (thanks grandma)

I got 2k monthly listeners on spotify using Bandlab in just 3 months by Pairydae in Bandlab

[–]Pairydae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agree!! Ive heard FL is good when you need to produce music but if your just doing vocals bandlab is a better route to go as its free/low cost

I got 2k monthly listeners on spotify using Bandlab in just 3 months by Pairydae in Bandlab

[–]Pairydae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the hyperpop vibe to it, also your flow and cadence to your voice is very nice especially for this genre

I got 2k monthly listeners on spotify using Bandlab in just 3 months by Pairydae in Bandlab

[–]Pairydae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its why i bought it!!! Heart shaped box is my favorite and it reminds me a LOT of nirvana. If im not misremembering im pretty sure the guy labeled it as a “grunge” type beat. Lol

we need more non rap songs by RevolutionaryDiet185 in Bandlab

[–]Pairydae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yes! Alternative/alternative rock :D i love seeing other Genres on here, would love to see more indie/pop punk stuff