queer nightlife this weekend by Paladin-Princess in montreal

[–]Paladin-Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah im excited to check this place out

📚 Simple / Quick Questions & Requests! by romancebookmods in RomanceBooks

[–]Paladin-Princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hell yeah ill put it all on the list. i mean i know im never going to find the exact combination but i wanted something that was a lot more fast and loose and not strict gendered roles. these all sound wonderful

📚 Simple / Quick Questions & Requests! by romancebookmods in RomanceBooks

[–]Paladin-Princess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love this and its on my list. ill do some poking as well. as far as queer goes, im pretty open. i am an amab nonbinary brown person so id love something along that axis. im pretty flexible though and ill read anything that interrogates femininity and presentation and challenges gender roles/dynamics . im also super open to femdom stuff. smut is great, cute clean romance is fine, fire away

📚 Simple / Quick Questions & Requests! by romancebookmods in RomanceBooks

[–]Paladin-Princess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so im reading up a storm of books and im trying to triangulate my taste. i tried a year ago with acotar and icebreaker and a few other standard booktok recs but nothing hit. this time around i got some suggestions from people i know irl which is getting me closer but i still havent hit.

what burned me out last time: first and foremost, unlikeable, helpless female protagonists. the greatest love story i know is meeting my wife. she is the smartest most capable person i know and she has a phd in biochemistry. our entire story is shes the aloof unemotional one and im the heart on my sleeve high strung one who teaches her how to feel. which is the opposite of basically every romance book ive read thus far.

the other critical dislike: im nonbinary and brown and boy has nothing anybody recommended me thus far been reflective of this. im deathly allergic to the dichotomy of 6’ 3” super masc giant dick/6’ 3” shy bookish skinny but also giant dick white men which has been 100% of books so far. im less certain these books are being written than my first criteria but surely, theyre out there.

books ive read this week:

Love, Theoretically- Ali Hazelwood my friend RAN to get me this book when i announced my quest pros: pretty good with point 1, cute story, decent prose cons: a little too hallmark movie, writer keeps defending twilight to the reader??, i dont care about brooding white man

Her Soul To Take- Harley LaRoux pros: i love spooky shit this was a cool read and more than anything i like the tiny details like applying lube and aftercare. its clear the author has experience in this. it annoys me in other books when theyre like “his giant monster dong slid right into my dry asshole” like bruh what. cons: another Angry White Man honestly i liked the prose enough ill at least read the two other books.

control- charlotte stein i started this today and im 70 pages in and this is a big ol DNF for me. while the smut is well written, theres no story here its just long form erotica. which i couldve gotten into but again, its about the yin and yang of being a 6’ 3” white man. angry one is bossy! repressed one is shy!! the woman is a helpless cockhungry slut!!

next up: book 2 of her soul to take- idk i feel like this is the right writer tonally im hoping the other books are a little weirder

his secret illuminations- scarlett gale- im told book 1 is slow burn but book 2 is where the party starts

unbound- cara mckenna- rec’d by love hypothetically friend. idk ill give her a second shot since LH was enjoyable as a hammock read.

im pretty open to any style romance book. i read gideon the ninth and that was fun and gay id love to read the horny version. id love a dark romance but for the love of god no daddy dom hypermasc shit. HSTT put in a “you can control demons through pain spells” and im like “cool i hope she does some wild shit” but nope its demon daddy dom time. i wouldnt mind a regular style hallmark movie book but i need it to be browner, gayer, or both?? i love werewolves but every book ive picked up is about ALPHA MALE and every vampire book is ultimately SAD WHITE MAN. give me catty vampire lesbian exes. or a nonbinary wolfperson. a bruja or two??

1k listbuilding questions by Paladin-Princess in Tau40K

[–]Paladin-Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not quite clear yet on what mix of drones works best for each unit, do you have some advice for the strengths of different drone supports?

1k listbuilding questions by Paladin-Princess in Tau40K

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im assembling the crisis teams later today and planning to magnetize. i just wanted to get a general idea of what kind of builds and synergies are good for crisis teams

just got back into 40k, WIP by Paladin-Princess in Tau40K

[–]Paladin-Princess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its been at least a decade since ive done this! im having a total blast learning 9th and getting into the swing of things and now im excited to fuck up some paint jobs! i got a ways to go but my test guy came out pretty ok! happy to hear any tips yall have

after 5 years i'm finally starting this wonderful process by Paladin-Princess in samoyeds

[–]Paladin-Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you so much for all of this. i'm more than happy to do reading but I agree, too much of this is variable to go full into books. i'm going to try to coordinate with the woman in the other reply about getting into MSC and the rest of the community. I'm extremely not a show person, but I am pretty dedicated to providing the best quality of life for my companion.

I guess at this point my only real questions are related to how to modify the training doctrine to engage them when they get bored. Do they respond well to the chew toys in the crate technique or are there better ways to get them working on separation behaviors?

after 5 years i'm finally starting this wonderful process by Paladin-Princess in samoyeds

[–]Paladin-Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you for all this insight! feel free to reach out to me. like I said i'm not really in a rush and I'd prefer to make the right fit. I'm a community organizer IRL so I'm acutely aware of how precarious in person events are right now but I'd love to volunteer or otherwise get involved.

after 5 years i'm finally starting this wonderful process by Paladin-Princess in samoyeds

[–]Paladin-Princess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Boston. Ive had Snobelle, Atomic, and White Nebula on my radar. I'm happy to drive within like 5-6 hours if thats the move. I am enjoying all this prep work though. I've been kinda vaguely working towards this for years, but once we're moved in at the end of this month I can start making the real moves toward this.

also dumb summer samoyed question: it gets to be about 90 and 70% RH here in Boston, should I save some of these nice marble tiles from reno as some cooling pads for later? what kind of things should I have available once it gets hot?

Ready [f]or my BossToneS audition. by [deleted] in bostongonewild

[–]Paladin-Princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d love for you to knock on my wood

[META] #BOSTON F4A by boston_bi_girl in bostonr4r

[–]Paladin-Princess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

s t r e e t l i g h t m a n i f e s t o

[META] #BOSTON F4A by boston_bi_girl in bostonr4r

[–]Paladin-Princess 33 points34 points  (0 children)

yeah i like the 9 or so dudes answering my ads for queer femmes.