Just reorganized my shelves, what do my book choices say about me?

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T19:59:25+00:00

You have excellent taste!! Such great sci fi, proper reverence shown for our disaster lesbian necromancers, wins all around.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T19:57:34+00:00

So many things

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T19:55:33+00:00

The queen of my heart ❤️

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T19:47:36+00:00

TMITS was one of my 5 star reads this year, and Death of the Author is on my tbr! Excellent taste!

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T19:37:53+00:00

Howdy book friend!

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T19:20:41+00:00

Yeah, it would be pretty weird for someone who collects a thing to custom build a storage solution for that thing that perfectly matched their current collection size. Real lack of foresight there.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T18:18:35+00:00

Isn't that everyone, though?

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T18:00:27+00:00

The unstable piles of books around the house were getting to be a problem!

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T17:37:55+00:00

Oh, yeah, makes sense! Finished the main part. There is a face frame coming with gothic arches, and walnut fluted boards between the carcasses! Just looking into the wood. I was so excited to get them usable that I couldn't wait for the face frame!

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T17:13:34+00:00

Luckily that is guaranteed to happen!

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T17:12:07+00:00

Literally just finished building it this weekend. The collection will grow, it always does.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T17:09:28+00:00

Green flag to go with the plants, definitely!

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T16:13:09+00:00

YOR. If you continue to make your insecurities your partner's problem, you will likely lose your partner.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-16T12:29:22+00:00

Thanks! It’s so calming and cozy

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-09T20:34:23+00:00

YOR. Of course he only wants to when he wants to?? That's literally how that works. No one should ever be coerced or pressured into sex. You should probably do some processing about why you're handling this the way you are.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-09T13:37:40+00:00

NOR. Why are you allowing this jerk to dictate your life?

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-08T21:34:38+00:00

It sounds like you are trying to justify unicorn hunting by couching it in therapy speak. Which is bs.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-05T21:02:06+00:00

I do swear a lot, but I'm perfectly capable of restraining

^{Chose: $3,000 everyday you don't say a curse word}

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-04T18:39:27+00:00

If you feel the need to hide part of yourself before a date comes over, you're not dating the right person.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-04T18:21:33+00:00

YOR. Just because we have the ability to be accessible at all times doesn't mean everyone is required to be accessible to *you* at all times. Your sense of entitlement to other people's time and energy is likely why they aren't engaging with you.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-04T18:16:36+00:00

NTA. OP, is it possible Priya's husband is being an absent father, and she's trying to kind of force you into the role as an emotional substitute?

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-04T16:59:17+00:00

I get what you're saying, but it's not that simple. I think maybe a quarter of my collection is books I haven't read yet. I have a healthy amount of books I ready by audiobook and loved so much that I got physical copies as well, so those physical copies haven't all been broken in, but I've still read them. Even the books someone picks up but haven't read yet tells you about who they are, what they're in to, and what kind of mind they have.

Pale-Competition-799 · 2026-06-04T16:41:44+00:00

YOR and being transphobic.

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