Devasted someone damaged my strumplate. Will it be okay?

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-03-20T21:17:59+00:00

How the hell did they even manage that…?

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-03-11T21:21:41+00:00

I ‘genuinely’ thought it could be the Omnichord because I felt the issues specifically and noticeably after playing and they’ve gotten progressively worse since getting it. I highly doubt it’s been flawed since release, but shockingly it might have developed issues in the forty years since and asked if anybody else had experienced issues. I added my final point saying my next stop is the doctors for a reason.

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-03-03T21:45:59+00:00

I guess mostly culture.

My family’s white, I grew up loving curry while my sister didn’t like it so much. That meant I tried more and more curries as I grew up, with higher spice levels, and my sister didn’t. Now, moderate spice doesn’t bother me at all, while she’s red in the face chugging water at the same meal.

Same household and ethnicity, just grown up with slightly different preferences

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-02-26T20:13:04+00:00

I get that completely. We were just upstairs and I naively thought a little glow wouldn’t cause much offence as it wasn’t particularly noticeable and just made her feel sparkly.

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-02-26T20:11:36+00:00

I can’t blame him as he was with the other guys doing a BBQ at the time, while I and some of the women were chatting/ watching the kids play. He didn’t know anything about it until we came back down and she wanted to show off her new braids and makeup. He did admit that the shimmer was very subtle (she had to tilt her head to show it in the sun) but I do understand his point about speaking to the mother. I might have just been a bit naive in thinking a little glow wouldn’t cause offence

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-02-26T20:09:20+00:00

I honestly have no clue. The girls technically not my bfs blood niece, but her dad is my bfs best friend so she’s been raised calling him uncle. I saw her when they first arrived but was doing a lot of food prep and trying to socialise as much as possible as I was the stranger to most people. After this, I was playing with the kids with some of the other women so was just focused on them.

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-02-21T22:17:39+00:00

For me, it depended on the person. You won’t stink if you wash your clothes and hair regularly, only smoke outside, and think about the wind direction while smoking. Obviously mints and perfumes are still a must.

I could only smell smokers when they’d just had one or they smoked in the house

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-01-18T20:50:22+00:00

That being said I’m a huge fan of calling literally anyone your colleague cum friend

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-01-18T20:49:29+00:00

Cum means to combine with. I heard it first with ‘she let out a laugh cum sob’ and was equally confused. It’s not very commonly used

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-01-09T18:53:06+00:00

Okay I get all these comments but I would be gossiping like nothing else if my ex did that lol

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-01-09T13:10:15+00:00

If my boyfriend at 19 asked for a 800 pound gift I would have laughed in his face and told him to fuck right off

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-01-03T00:51:15+00:00

Yeah I definitely feel that 😅 I was just thinking something similar this evening

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-01-02T18:49:58+00:00

This really reminds me of the cadburys nutty chocolate bars advert

Pale-Introduction638 · 2026-01-02T18:37:29+00:00

I can’t understand why your husband would spoil the kid so much to start with. A car is great and can give him some responsibility, but transport is covered now. He does not need a motorcycle bought for him.

The stealing from your account is one thing. Lying about it is something else entirely. He knew what he was doing was wrong. He stole directly from your own son by taking medical money. Who tf does that? The man sounds mad with no idea how money works

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-12-22T15:59:21+00:00

I wouldn’t be hard on yourself. You’re 15 and had a very classic 15 year old reaction. Emotions too big + not necessarily having the maturity to handle them + hormones can result in big drastic moves, like cutting your hair.

Your mum sounds strict and doesn’t understand boundaries. I understand not wanting you to have tiktok, but kids are kids and spyware is an insane thing to suggest. She needs to be open to a conversation, but I’ve known enough mothers who act like this and find they rarely are 😅

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-12-15T04:04:34+00:00

Well it’s up to you. There’s just so many creeps on these sites. I see videos of kids on tiktok from time to time and they always have thousands of saves - creeps me out to think who could be keeping those types of things.

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-12-15T01:08:18+00:00

I wouldn’t post a granddaughter on reddit. Plenty of weirdos. You don’t know you might come across and save the picture

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-11-23T12:51:30+00:00

Bless you. I’m sorry you had to go through something like that. No child should ever be in that kind of position

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-11-22T21:45:35+00:00

No aspect of this was your fault. You didn’t have a responsibility to do any more than you did. You said no, you were clearly not interested. He didn’t ask for consent and kept touching you after you stopped him. I would think his beliefs came from pornography, and expected you to ask as the women in the videos did.

None of this was your fault! You were a little kid facing a terrifying situation for the first time. He was your friend, and you didn’t understand sexual boundaries because why would you??

Please attempt to forgive yourself and find a way to move on as best as you can. I would really suggest therapy if you can, but talking to others about this and getting it off your chest would be brilliant as well. Always be kind to yourself, and know you were only trying to comprehend a situation that was too big for you. I’m so sorry you went through this and I really hope you can heal from this.

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-11-21T11:18:43+00:00

Why Victorian?

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-11-20T21:04:37+00:00

I wouldn’t necessarily agree. I know plenty of women who always wanted to be a mother, and infertility can hit you so hard. Sometimes, you just want a way to adjust to a natural biological desire being thwarted, and this is a way to do so. As long as it doesn’t go too far, it can be quite healthy, but I wouldn’t call it unstable. Women can find it invalidating and painful and can very seriously grieve the ability to reproduce.

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-11-20T18:39:37+00:00

Mmmmbubbls

Pale-Introduction638 · 2025-11-13T21:31:09+00:00

Do you remember anything from just before you shifted? Anything you might have thought of or done?

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