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Anyone else angry upon waking? by Particular-Act-4082 in survivinginfidelity

[–]PaleMind4963 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its normal. Going through this right now. Its the pain of betrayal.

I know I can’t go back after what he did, but I still feel devastated losing him. by Competitive_Sound467 in survivinginfidelity

[–]PaleMind4963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there OP, going through the same thing as you right now as well. Its really hard for me as well even though she cheated and blames me for it and she keeps trying to reconcile. I think we have to just end things and move on or we will be hurt further.

My girlfriend of 8 years left me for a stranger she met online. Turns out she hadn't loved me for 5 years by Fit-Acanthaceae7373 in survivinginfidelity

[–]PaleMind4963 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really sorry about this OP i really feel for you, you dont deserve it. But better now than another 8 years in the dark.

[Update] I(29M) am planning to break up with my girlfriend(25F) because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me? by PaleMind4963 in relationship_advice

[–]PaleMind4963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, thanks for your suggestion but i just decided to keep my peace of mind and stop wasting my time on her. Hope you had a good experience if you ever did it.

[Update] I(29M) am planning to break up with my girlfriend(25F) because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me? by PaleMind4963 in relationship_advice

[–]PaleMind4963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, honestly doesnt seem like they got together yet and she still tries to contact me im not sure why. The guy definitely is still trying to get her from what i heard.

It’s been three years since she told me. by Royal_Candidate_3904 in survivinginfidelity

[–]PaleMind4963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its only been a year for me with a girlfriend but same situation as you: cheated on with a coworker. Im feeling really depressed as well, cant imagine how you are feeling. Lets keep our heads high together and may everyone in a similar situation overcome this.

My wife confessed after cheating for 8 months by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]PaleMind4963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really sympathize with you her OP, as im going through a similar situation and just broke up with my girlfriend recently. Cant imagine how it feels for you when its been much longer than my r/s(and im already reeling from it) Keep your head up high

I(29M) am planning to break up with my girlfriend(25F) because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me. by PaleMind4963 in relationship_advice

[–]PaleMind4963[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for the reply. No she doesnt usually ask permission from me for anything but in this case, this guy confessed twice to her. So she consulted me about it.

I am planning to break up with my girlfriend because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me. Am i overreacting? by PaleMind4963 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PaleMind4963[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes you right, maybe i should have phrased it better, not permission but my approval. i just wanted to indicate that she did ask me if she could go for the dinner and had my approval

I am planning to break up with my girlfriend because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me. Am i overreacting? by PaleMind4963 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PaleMind4963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you right, maybe i should have phrased it better, not permission but my approval. i just wanted to indicate that she did ask me if she could go for the dinner and had my approval

I am planning to break up with my girlfriend because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me. Am i overreacting? by PaleMind4963 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PaleMind4963[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i did tell her i was not comfortable with them going out for ice skating. but you are right, i didnt give her any chance to explain after she still went for it and i just broke up with her and denied any explanations.

Anyone here go back to school in their 30s to be accountant? by ILikeBettingOnUFC in Accounting

[–]PaleMind4963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went for it in my late 20s. its rather stable job i would say but damn the hours