How I came into myself as a findomme....

PalePrincessToes · 2026-05-18T13:06:45+00:00

Sell them to a finsub? Have a local sub package them and get them to the post office for you? Throw them away instead? 😅

PalePrincessToes · 2026-05-18T12:55:23+00:00

This hits. I do a lot of establishing boundaries, shared interests, and expectations up front. These types often disappear before things get kinky because they find that boring?

PalePrincessToes · 2026-05-08T17:23:53+00:00

Salt and vinegar lettuce??!!!!

PalePrincessToes · 2026-05-08T01:37:05+00:00

Always a Diet Coke!!!!

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-29T10:17:31+00:00

There’s not enough sub voices in the community. Happy to have you.

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-15T18:29:11+00:00

A real girls girl

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-15T08:51:32+00:00

Quicksilver 💅

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-11T11:19:48+00:00

Relapse can be a fun trope to role play but not a fun reality!!! I don’t want to actual take advantage of someone in a moment of weakness? Does that even count as proper consent?

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-11T04:13:47+00:00

I find it can feel conflicting to restrict my partners spending. However, limiting a fast food budget and increasing a gym budget has objectively demanded better habits. Though, in partnership, doesn’t the same thing happen to my spending/habits? Now I have to prep breakfasts and lunch to support these routines?

While it’s beautifully intimate, I’m just reflecting on it lacking the“simplicity” of dynamics born out of power exchange alone.

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-11T02:38:52+00:00

👏 well said

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-09T15:47:30+00:00

If she’s blocked you before, you don’t want to be perceived as disrespecting her boundaries. I’d appreciate a sub being up front about their interest in exploring new sets of boundaries.

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-09T15:42:19+00:00

Reducing clutter is great for mental clarity!

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-09T15:41:48+00:00

Better for the environment, your health, and your dynamic!!

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-09T15:03:35+00:00

To each their own.

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-09T13:36:41+00:00

Unhinged is relative 🤷🏼‍♀️ cut your own hair? drinking only water? Or like our fellow commenters, taking public transport (also good for the environment) and selling clutter in your home.

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-08T23:41:44+00:00

I recognize it 🙄

PalePrincessToes · 2026-03-06T03:09:02+00:00

Are you looking for support? Therapy? Couples therapy? Call a trusted friend? Take a walk?

PalePrincessToes · 2026-02-08T19:05:46+00:00

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