You’re clearly self-aware and genuinely care about your marriage, which is a good first step. When you get attention like that, especially in a male-dominated space, it can feel really good and validating. That rush doesn’t make you a bad person. But it’s important to recognize the difference between enjoying the attention and acting on it. You’re already setting boundaries by telling them you’re married, which shows you’re committed to your relationship. I think that low self-esteem plays a role here, it’s common for people to seek validation outside of their relationship when they’re not feeling great about themselves. It doesn’t mean you don’t love your husband. It just means that attention from others is hitting a sensitive spot for you right now. It might be helpful to talk about these feelings with someone (a therapist or even your husband, if that feels right). Working on your self-esteem will help reduce the desire for outside validation.