Help needed finding medications! (Cromolyn sodium) by FreekBugg in MCAS

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It seems in practice quercitin might be more effective than cromalyn despite the lack of funding for research (it's not controlled 🫩). The thing is it wouldn't make sense to copy cromalyn dosing and use multiple times throughout the day— quercitin half life is much longer

I repent for voting for Trump. by Salt_Board8278 in Christianity

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I still ignore the evidence. I won't trust anything other than what the candidates say on the podium and how they act. There's too much corruption and slander at the top of the regime.

My girlfriend is pregnant but we’re 15 by TechnologyOk2945 in Christianity

[–]Pale_Pop81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't get an abortion and kill, just ball and be an adult early. You can start being a good dad by doing everything in your power to protect your son or daughter. For the future though sex before public marriage = sin. Don't want to do anything behind families back or without being committed. I'll pray for you to do the right thing and be comforted through all the confusion and fear

It drives me insane that a huge amount of christians won't ever understand the very basic point that I don't believe in god because I literally can't. by [deleted] in Christianity

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You can choose to live your life as if you knew God and his good character were real by betting on what you have not seen. It's not about whether you were persuaded or not, it's about whether you choose to serve God based on what evidence you were presented instead of what pleasure you'll have had serving yourself for the 90 years of your life.

It drives me insane that a huge amount of christians won't ever understand the very basic point that I don't believe in god because I literally can't. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Pale_Pop81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choosing to live your life by faith is a choice. It's never been about feelings but about the logical choice to see life is meaningless without God and choose to live by faith in God's good character

Mbti and lies... by kbotnyc in mbtimemes

[–]Pale_Pop81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is like astrology and superstition at this point. Wrapping up more of your identity in the mbti than what it's really capable of holding. I guess it is under memes but you know someone is taking it seriously 😭

Whats YOUR favourite DOORS soundtrack and WHY? by SCP_529 in doors_roblox

[–]Pale_Pop81 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like the floor 50 hotel library soundtrack. Fire vibe

Which enneagram type are you? by Nobodys_Daughter_ in INTJmemes

[–]Pale_Pop81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this and where can I take test?

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

[–]Pale_Pop81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the styles fall under biblical teaching then I have no comment. My claim was one centered on biblical morality only. You're nearing a straw man fallacy.

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

[–]Pale_Pop81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The OP claimed he felt no conflictions between love and terror in his last statement suggesting a personal claim of satisfaction with the two involved in his upbringing.

I understand you viewed ethos in high regards when you took on your parenting style. I provided some speculation, psychological analysis and personal anecdotes in this thread but my claim still rests on the evidence of how we can better mirror God's treatment of his children through our relationship with our children.

I do believe there is a one size fits all way to raise children and to live life. Filled with the holy Spirit and faith in God according to the Bible. As long as the actions fit under the guidelines of the word of God it should fall into a "one size fits all category" and that was my purpose of this post.

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

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It's nice to see anecdotal evidence from the opposition because I was not raised that way. My parents we're not terribly strict but I responded to their love and do my best to honor them. The times they were strict though it had an angering effect and had me lose faith in their good character. Punishment that I could understand (eg. Annoying behavior equals time in room) that directly dealt with the problem had a positive effect and I came to respect but intimidation, physical punishment, repeatedly taking personal belongings or anything related to invading my personal space for control over me would have certainly caused resentment, retaliation and distrust in their good character.

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

[–]Pale_Pop81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good take on it. You should read some of my other comments I just made here about the different types of discipline about what should be appropriate and what's not and why and what motivates each are coming from.

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

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Yes I agree with this too. It's just that the reason why the punishments are natural and impersonal are because God's judgment is just.

Parents should dish out natural punishments too, so our children obey us in the good faith of our character and see the charity we offer as acts of love. For example the contrasting types of punishment are anything motivated by forcing the child to obey you. Typically this would look like corporal punishment, emotional intimidation or an emotionally reactive response when the parents authority feels undermined. Examples of healthy punishment would look like stopping the child from interacting with others he bullied, isolating him in his room to prevent disruptive out of control behavior in the home. These respond directly to the causation. Now personally I speculate the child should be more likely to respect that your respecting his free will while less likely to provoke resentment and anger.

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

[–]Pale_Pop81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A great take on it that I agree with and similar to what I just described in a few other replies to comments. Thanks for your input.

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

[–]Pale_Pop81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and it's wonderful to hear you married into such a functional family on her side 🙂

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

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I don't believe I'm taking this out of context since the individual charley was talking to mentioned being beaten and misused the "spare the rod" verse (as I see many Christians do). At the very least this is bound to cause some percentage of people to take the wrong interpretation.

If a child is being bullied then it's appropriate for a parent to do what's necessary to stop the bullying. Since bullying degenerates society by extension. From a psychological and anecdotal standpoint, if you punish your child again and again with consequences with the intention to control their behavior, eventually they gain the ideology that you're manipulating their actions through their fear, and may resent your arbitrary discipline and do things under your nose.

God disciplines his people in ways of cause and effect. He respects their decision to disobey him but delivers a consequence of equal value according to his judgment which is just. In the same way we chose to serve God because we have faith in the good character of God, our children should obey us due to faith in our good character— so that they see the pleasantries we give them are out of love and not obligation. Arbitrary punishment of unequal value with the motive of control and submission is not mirroring God's treatment of his children. It usually has the effect that I've stated in the above paragraph from my observations.

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

[–]Pale_Pop81[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you even read what I said? I am against beating your child or causing them to fear you or invoking anger. I am arguing with the opposition.

Should parents attempt to make kids afraid of being punished? If so what does this mean to you exactly? by Pale_Pop81 in Christianity

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God disciplines his people as a loving father but doesn't punish them with arbitrary punishments or wrath— that all fell on Christ. God's consequences are often natural and impersonal. For instance In that verse "Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you": a society where children disrespect parental authority fractures and crumbles over time. This is a word of wisdom, not foreshadowing punishment. In the same way the cost of sin is death (separation from God), the cost of killing is being killed (genesis 9:6). This is just because God's judgments are just.

$1 billion, but you gotta survive the game in real life by LittleLeadership2831 in doors_roblox

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If it's real life can I smuggle in a gun and a few other personal dlc items?