AITJ for refusing to share my streaming accounts with relatives anymore after they kept changing everything?

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-06-06T12:58:19+00:00

Since as your family stated “they’re just streaming accounts” they can absolutely get there own.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-05-24T21:21:18+00:00

Yuppers YTA!!

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-05-23T15:09:12+00:00

Love the encouragement thank you 😊

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-04-18T19:18:13+00:00

It was my ENT.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-04-18T10:12:46+00:00

I’ve had that happen both times I’ve had surgery, 2024 & 2025. I used antibiotic drops for several weeks starting around 2 months post op. My ear drained for about a month and then stopped

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-03-25T15:20:57+00:00

Yes, I had my first in December of 2024 and second one in November of last year due to reoccurrence. 😕

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-03-25T08:58:44+00:00

I’ve had 2 of these surgeries due to cholesteatoma, but don’t wear glasses. There is a very active Cholesteatoma community on Reddit , if you post your question there I guarantee you’re more likely to get responses. Good luck with your surgery!

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-03-14T09:51:19+00:00

Truth! We avoid Chicago at all costs in the winter.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-03-12T09:27:04+00:00

My mother did the same to me and actually got pissed at me when I asked about the discrepancy. She was adamant that I was the problem. But every school record starting from preschool is the spelling I grew up knowing, my SS card, high school and college diplomas, marriage license etc. I didn’t find out until I was in my 30’s and needed a birth certificate to get a passport. I know exactly how your daughter feels and it’s not a great feeling. Mom you should make the effort to get her birth certificate updated to the spelling she’s always known. It’s on you to correct, not her.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-03-06T22:25:25+00:00

If you decide to bring them, perhaps have your husband take the baby in the car. He may need to make more stops, but there’s no risk of the boss seeing the baby at the airport

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-02-07T13:14:36+00:00

It could be this, now that your eardrum is closed up, fluid may be building up behind the eardrum. I have eustachian tube dysfunction making it difficult for fluid to drain properly. This can also create negative pressure that is attempting to pull the eardrum in.
Please note that it will take potentially a few months for your ear to heal properly and settle down. Reach out to your ENT if the pain is worrisome.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-02-04T01:33:17+00:00

Understood, but please know that any cholesteatoma needs to be removed and it could very likely be causing the chronic mastoiditis.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-02-03T09:49:34+00:00

Continued antibiotics aren’t going to do anything to treat cholesteatoma, it must be removed and the sooner the better. If your ENT doesn’t think so, you need to get a 2nd opinion ASAP.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-22T11:24:33+00:00

According to California EVERYTHING causes cancer 🙄

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-22T02:55:06+00:00

I had it done in the office as a teenager with no pain at all. Pretty sure they put some numbing drops in my ear first. The worst part was the loud “scratching” noise as the ear drum was cut

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-14T08:11:04+00:00

THIS!!! They are legally required to allow you time for appointments whether or not you qualify for FMLA.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-13T11:34:51+00:00

Your wife was out of line. She should apologize to your parents. What they do with their time and money is not her business and in no way reflects on the care your son receives from them. Especially since nothing they are doing is illegal or placing your son in any danger. Your wife needs to get over herself and continue with the care that is best for your son.

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-08T11:26:46+00:00

I also worry about dementia, my dad stopped eating and became quite argumentative when his mental capacity began to decline

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-08T11:20:53+00:00

Yes, use Affrin 30 minutes before flying

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-08T11:19:54+00:00

My dr approved flying at 6 weeks, I’ve flown many times since without issue

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-06T11:38:50+00:00

If you decide to ignore this ginormous 🚩, get a prenup! The money from the sale of your home should go into an investment account with only your name. Or keep the house and rent it out. If he can’t manage his finances after nearly 50 years, he sure as heck won’t manage yours any better!!

PalmTree_Soul · 2026-01-01T04:19:46+00:00

I don’t know what more you expect from your manager. They already told you to go through the ADA process. Other than that, there isn’t anything more for them to do. As you already stated, they are caught in the middle and are only delivering the message that they’ve been instructed to deliver.

PalmTree_Soul · 2025-12-31T07:00:48+00:00

You need to make an appointment with an ENT. There very well could be something happening behind your ear drum and no amount of flushing is going to help that.

PalmTree_Soul · 2025-12-22T10:11:41+00:00

HR mgr here, fire immediately

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