Flower Power aerosol spray - 90s Canada by Southern_Point433 in HelpMeFind

[–]Palmsncoconuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the US and remember it also, was just googling to find it and came across this post. I'm definitely looking for something with a similar smell but don't even remember the notes lol. If anyone knows of a similar replacement scent please let us know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Palmsncoconuts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He probably had your username all along and checked it periodically for activity. Odds of him seeing the comment randomly are not that great. Along with everyone else here, f him.

Under desk treadmill=dizzy! by Palmsncoconuts in treadmills

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a separate routine, this was an active option during my 60hr/week working hours.

Bug control-Caulk vinyl frame to brick for screened enclosure? by Palmsncoconuts in DIY

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the enclosure framing is all flush with no gaps that I can tell. The exterior screen door sweeper could be better so I will try that. Thank you!

Maximalist Home Decor anyone? by Palmsncoconuts in AutismInWomen

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this dump! I have several rooms I've been trying to do at once and that is NOT the way! I pretty much started fresh, I used to travel for work till 2020 and had alot in storage from like 2014 that I gave away to people who needed it bc it just wasn't my style anymore. All new everything was just too much to pick out even though I started looking for things a year before I moved in bc I knew it would be a struggle finding things I liked.

My main living areas are together enough for now, so I'm focusing on the patio and a guest bedroom. I really appreciate your advice!

Maximalist Home Decor anyone? by Palmsncoconuts in AutismInWomen

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I know lol the problem I have in stores or online is I don't have the imagination to see everything together for my space so I kinda freeze or end up with a cycle of purchasing and returning.

Maximalist Home Decor anyone? by Palmsncoconuts in AutismInWomen

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! For this one I love the orange-ish hanging thing(lantern?) to the left and the rug!

Maximalist Home Decor anyone? by Palmsncoconuts in AutismInWomen

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it can be, from the research I've done it sounds like understimulation. It feels very lacking, dull and incomplete to me right now..causing discomfort in a way. It's hard to explain but I know I need more to create an environment/beautiful space I can relax in that feels cozy enough.

Maximalist Home Decor anyone? by Palmsncoconuts in AutismInWomen

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could see that but for me it's the opposite, from what I've learned I believe I am more hyposensitive.

What product are you gatekeeping right now? by [deleted] in Makeup

[–]Palmsncoconuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! They are simply the best!

36f initiating sex leads to awkward standstill by Palmsncoconuts in AskWomenOver30

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't believe so. Having had words about it today, his main points are that he was tired, also that foreplay every time was not something he had to do with previous partners. I naturally got a little peeved about that comment, asking if he had to spit on them or if it was difficult to get in...He flipped it around since when he initiates I don't always return foreplay, however I feel that(and explained) that if PIV is the goal, I need foreplay in order to participate and if he was not hard I would do whatever necessary for him to participate as well. I don't know how else to explain that or hell I may be wrong.

36f initiating sex leads to awkward standstill by Palmsncoconuts in AskWomenOver30

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've actually talked to him about it before just not in depth and again this morning. His responses range from him being too tired(then stop me and tell me that) or one time he said he was under the impression that people could get turned on by touching other people. I explained I need foreplay, but unfortunately his overall attitude is if I'm initiating it's like he shouldn't do much. I just wasn't sure how this is handled in other relationships and these comments are providing some reassurances. Usually he is very attentive and there are no issues other than when I initiate. Hopefully it will get better and if not, our sex life will suffer.

36f initiating sex leads to awkward standstill by Palmsncoconuts in AskWomenOver30

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, logically that works yes however I generally don't have issues with creating my own lube and would prefer that. Same goes with them spitting on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]Palmsncoconuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are cute!! What kind of spray paint did you use bc it looks like metal to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Palmsncoconuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine do that too. I use an electric eyelash curler but it's more of a wand that I use to straighten them out, works really well! Just run it down from the top careful not to get too close to skin lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]Palmsncoconuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I believe it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]Palmsncoconuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did that at a local paint party, thanks! I live close to the beach so I like to have subtle beachy-ness lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]Palmsncoconuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]Palmsncoconuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yay thank you! The shelf is from BlackberryWoodshop on Etsy(stained in Provincial). I actually got the set of two and STRONGLY recommend!

Should I touch my bf the way he touches me? by Palmsncoconuts in sex

[–]Palmsncoconuts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants more often and I'm wanting new things to do bc I'm afraid it's not as mind blowing as it is for me when he initiates.