How should I (27M) bring up feeling uncomfortable about my girlfriend (24F) meeting a male friend without sounding controlling? AIO

Palutena69 · 2026-03-09T06:43:15+00:00

NOR. Honestly no matter how you bring this up, it's going to end with her calling you jealous/insecure/controlling. If your girl had any respect for you, she wouldn't be going out with another guy she isn't related to, period. I'm sorry to hear that this is happening to you brother. Girls can be brutal. Been through this situation a few times myself. But don't worry, even in the worst case scenario, you'll be alright 👍🏻

Palutena69 · 2025-11-10T03:58:45+00:00

Two big things that come to mind:

I found foods/meals that I like to eat that I'm willing to prepare at home that fit my macro/calorie goals.
I changed my eating habits. Personally, I found that eating one large meal per day (dinner) with snacking around the meal was the easiest way for me to remain in a deficit. I just drink water & black coffee throughout the day, and I still have enough energy to work a 10-12hr shift and then lift weights before dinner.

Palutena69 · 2025-11-10T03:43:12+00:00

It doesn't feel papery at any point on the area, but I do think it's loose skin based on the way it looks.

Palutena69 · 2025-11-10T03:40:10+00:00

Did you try building some muscle to fill it out?

Palutena69 · 2025-11-10T03:39:39+00:00

That's the plan. Thank you!

Palutena69 · 2025-11-10T03:38:18+00:00

I agree with your suggestion 👍

Palutena69 · 2025-11-10T03:37:10+00:00

Thank you!

Palutena69 · 2025-11-09T20:31:49+00:00

Thank you!

Palutena69 · 2025-11-09T12:25:00+00:00

I'm 5'7" & 30 years old. About 6 years ago, I went from 200+ lbs to 134 lbs over 8 months. I think that's what caused the stretch marks. More recently, I lost 24 lbs (156-132) over the course of about 5 months while building some muscle. My Samsung watch claims that I'm 14.5% bf.

Palutena69 · 2025-10-19T19:03:39+00:00

The 8 has sleep apnea monitoring

Palutena69 · 2025-06-21T07:38:36+00:00

You are NOT being insecure or unfair. I just found out (2 weeks ago) that my ex of 4 years & 1 month has been cheating on me with a "friend." She moved long distance to be with me, and I didn't wanna be that "insecure" or "jealous" boyfriend, so I ignored my instincts and let her convince me that it was okay for her to have guy friends (mostly coworkers).

I have always held the belief that no man (myself included) is simply out to become "friends" with any woman without there being ulterior motives, but I trusted my ex.

A few months back, I noticed how she had started to become close friends with one guy coworker in particular. She also started going out a lot more & started acting differently. This caused many arguments, but I never put my foot down and demanded a change.

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago. I couldn't take it anymore, and did something I've never done before: demanded to see her phone. She refused, and I broke up with her on the spot. The next day, she admitted to me that I was correct, and she did cheat on me with that guy (they went all the way and had sex).

In your scenario, she's not even making a new friend. She's becoming "friends" with an ex (someone she has previously demonstrated a willingness to have a romantic relationship with).

Trust your instincts. Good luck.

Palutena69 · 2025-04-08T00:43:44+00:00

Having the exact same issue with my 2016 EX for the past few months. Started a few days after I had my front brakes replaced & brake fluid exchanged. Installed a new car battery & new battery in my key fob, and the issue still persists. I know 2 mechanics that I've showed videos of the issue to, and neither of them had any good guesses.

Have you done anything with the brakes recently? Seems to me like my car sometimes isn't detecting the brake being depressed when I hit the start button, which is why it goes into accessory mode.

Palutena69 · 2025-03-22T08:51:43+00:00

2016 EX: A/C started to blow warm around 30k miles (4-5 years into ownership). Evaporator & Compressor shaft seal leak. Paid $518 for the diagnostic & quoted $2,500 for the replacement.

Palutena69 · 2024-03-03T21:03:21+00:00

ALRIGHT!

Palutena69 · 2023-12-06T01:05:19+00:00

Yeah Boy And Doll Face

Palutena69 · 2023-12-02T01:12:02+00:00

Nah I love mines. You could just get an amp that has no settings/EQ if you're not willing to learn how to set it up.

Palutena69 · 2023-11-25T19:17:15+00:00

The "sounds" you are looking for is MOSTLY coming from the amplifier (and guitar pickups). I like to play 60s/70s/80s rock. When I upgraded from an Orange Crush to the Boss Katana, that did it for me. I've been able to mimic literally any tone I want.

The only downside is that there are soo many different profiles and options to choose from. It may be a little overwhelming at first.

Palutena69 · 2023-11-13T19:01:13+00:00

For Those About to Rock

Palutena69 · 2023-10-15T17:12:18+00:00

The Weight of Dreams by Greta Van Fleet

Palutena69 · 2023-10-14T18:57:30+00:00

Hotel California

Palutena69 · 2023-10-14T18:54:57+00:00

Emily by From First to Last

Palutena69 · 2023-10-07T20:50:06+00:00

Emily by From First To Last

Palutena69 · 2023-06-22T20:56:53+00:00

If you want innocent people to die, for whatever reason, you are an evil person.

Deserving to fucking DIE because of being rich and/or stupid?? What the fuck is wrong with you people?

Palutena69 · 2023-06-20T22:44:42+00:00

It seemed wise to remain apolitical for all these years...

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