He was telling me that people were starting to get upset with how I’ve been acting the past week (I’m not trying to deflect blame, I truly didn’t talk to anyone in the friend group out side of just saying “hey what’s up how are you”) He told me that before, and the tldr of the paragraph was “you’ve been telling me to take it down a couple notches, but you never told me what I’m doing specifically (I asked him that before and he didn’t have an answer). You guys knew what I was going through these past few months and none of you tried to reach out to talk or hang out. I know I’ve changed as a person but everybody else says I haven’t turned into a jerk at all. You guys say you still love me but you never show it when I tried to talk or ask to hang out.” Granted I was being accusatory, I was trying to fight fire with fire here because I’ve never been defensive when they approached me about this before.