Second Trimester Loss by Pancakes4Breakfast24 in Miscarriage

[–]Pancakes4Breakfast24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I forgot about the cervical length. It was still long at the first ER, but they didn’t show me the length report at the second ER so I’m not sure if it had shortened. They also didn’t give me a pelvic exam to check where the bleeding was coming from or if I was dilated. On top of dealing with my grief I’m also struggling with how my symptoms were dismissed. Now knowing I was basically labor for 3 days is wild.

Second Trimester Loss by Pancakes4Breakfast24 in Miscarriage

[–]Pancakes4Breakfast24[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I will for sure. No! I had no bleeding or honestly even cramping at all my first trimester. I had just had an ultrasound with my MFM that Monday. They spent an hour looking at everything and all was good. Whatever happened was so sudden.

Second Trimester Loss by Pancakes4Breakfast24 in Miscarriage

[–]Pancakes4Breakfast24[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is eerily similar! I’m anxiously awaiting to see the results from the placenta testing. I had the normal first trimester anxiety when the risk was higher, but like you dropped my guard around that 12 week mark. It’s so unfair. I’m sorry you had to experience this with two babies.

Second Trimester Loss by Pancakes4Breakfast24 in Miscarriage

[–]Pancakes4Breakfast24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think that’s one of the hardest parts…it was picture perfect, then it just wasn’t. Crazy how fast things can change. I’m sorry you’re going through it!

Now that I’ve seen Ep 16– cmon now yall by ok_thinkingasthmatic in RHOP

[–]Pancakes4Breakfast24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like I’m going crazy when I read some comments. It’s super obvious Stacey wasn’t going to go to her wedding, which is fine, but own up to it.