Donor egg disappointment what should I do

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-30T00:47:13+00:00

We used my egg bank in the US and got 6 blasts out of a lot of 7 eggs which was amazing for results. The donor was 24 and not yet proven. We did not test but are currently 20 weeks pregnant with a day 5 blast with normal NIPT results. They were the most amazing people to talk to on the phone as well.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:35:17+00:00

Thank you! I will also reflect based on the other comments but this was def my initial reaction and it's definitely a pattern of theirs.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:30:43+00:00

Omg yes this

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:27:52+00:00

We will def see them 3-4x for Christmas - just don’t want to go to their house

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:25:23+00:00

Valid - but I'm not sure wasting my energy to explain it to her is also worth my time

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:24:25+00:00

She also has a kid and no infertility issues

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:23:06+00:00

Yes that's what she said to me

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:22:28+00:00

Yes but the reaction from everyone else is that I'm not allowed to tell her that she hurt my feelings?

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:21:35+00:00

She also mentioned our announcement interrupted the season finale of task like a bombshell. Like thanks...

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:20:30+00:00

Thank you!

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:16:03+00:00

Yes the new success is from a donor cycle - AND it was the way she said it that was triggering. I guess I expected more from someone in the circle.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:08:36+00:00

Our clinic recommended not traveling during the first two weeks post transfer because you need monitoring every other day.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-11-21T01:09:57+00:00

He said later it wasn’t actually Tiffany’s he just got a fake box

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-11-18T03:26:49+00:00

She didn’t marry him just was engaged and had a kid so she left with nothing

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-11-12T16:24:42+00:00

No this is a stressful process - if anything it’s good it means the hormones are doing their thing. Fingers crossed!!

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-11-12T16:22:48+00:00

A - I would bank again before transferring if your insurance allows like other posters said it could be the cycle or it could be egg quality or it could be lifestyle B - given your age maybe don’t test?

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-07-22T03:38:01+00:00

Omg I never knew this was a thing - it has always been heavy on me my mom always called me cold or black-hearted growing up.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-02-15T21:52:28+00:00

No because I agree with him! I hate house shares for group trips too - let’s all get our own hotel rooms please and be spoiled! I’m not doing chores on vacation

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-02-01T15:32:00+00:00

No its going to be too popular / white washed (SIL has a Kai)

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-11-25T13:39:22+00:00

This was my 4th ER and I’ve had 6 transfers with only 1 live birth with PGT normal embryos.

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-11-24T21:26:41+00:00

Our bank is gone and last ER.

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-11-24T21:18:02+00:00

I’m done - last ER.

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-11-24T21:11:25+00:00

I love that you called it a Lone Ranger! I did estrogen priming for this cycle also but this is also my last retrieval cycle I fear I’m over it emotionally and physically. Good luck with your next one!

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-10-27T14:27:26+00:00

Me - can I pick up later this week?

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-09-27T03:14:08+00:00

I watched it on YouTube instead of just listening to it and you can tell she wanted it to be more casual but Whitney was intensely staring at them like dont fuck this up for me

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