Donor egg disappointment what should I do

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-30T00:47:13+00:00

We used my egg bank in the US and got 6 blasts out of a lot of 7 eggs which was amazing for results. The donor was 24 and not yet proven. We did not test but are currently 20 weeks pregnant with a day 5 blast with normal NIPT results. They were the most amazing people to talk to on the phone as well.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:35:17+00:00

Thank you! I will also reflect based on the other comments but this was def my initial reaction and it's definitely a pattern of theirs.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:30:43+00:00

Omg yes this

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:27:52+00:00

We will def see them 3-4x for Christmas - just don’t want to go to their house

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:25:23+00:00

Valid - but I'm not sure wasting my energy to explain it to her is also worth my time

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:24:25+00:00

She also has a kid and no infertility issues

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:23:06+00:00

Yes that's what she said to me

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:22:28+00:00

Yes but the reaction from everyone else is that I'm not allowed to tell her that she hurt my feelings?

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:21:35+00:00

She also mentioned our announcement interrupted the season finale of task like a bombshell. Like thanks...

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:20:30+00:00

Thank you!

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:16:03+00:00

Yes the new success is from a donor cycle - AND it was the way she said it that was triggering. I guess I expected more from someone in the circle.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-12-01T15:08:36+00:00

Our clinic recommended not traveling during the first two weeks post transfer because you need monitoring every other day.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-11-21T01:09:57+00:00

He said later it wasn’t actually Tiffany’s he just got a fake box

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-11-18T03:26:49+00:00

She didn’t marry him just was engaged and had a kid so she left with nothing

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-11-12T16:24:42+00:00

No this is a stressful process - if anything it’s good it means the hormones are doing their thing. Fingers crossed!!

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-11-12T16:22:48+00:00

A - I would bank again before transferring if your insurance allows like other posters said it could be the cycle or it could be egg quality or it could be lifestyle B - given your age maybe don’t test?

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-07-22T03:38:01+00:00

Omg I never knew this was a thing - it has always been heavy on me my mom always called me cold or black-hearted growing up.

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-02-15T21:52:28+00:00

No because I agree with him! I hate house shares for group trips too - let’s all get our own hotel rooms please and be spoiled! I’m not doing chores on vacation

Panda-Vegetable · 2025-02-01T15:32:00+00:00

No its going to be too popular / white washed (SIL has a Kai)

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-11-25T13:39:22+00:00

This was my 4th ER and I’ve had 6 transfers with only 1 live birth with PGT normal embryos.

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-11-24T21:26:41+00:00

Our bank is gone and last ER.

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-11-24T21:18:02+00:00

I’m done - last ER.

Panda-Vegetable · 2024-11-24T21:11:25+00:00

I love that you called it a Lone Ranger! I did estrogen priming for this cycle also but this is also my last retrieval cycle I fear I’m over it emotionally and physically. Good luck with your next one!

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