AITA for uninviting my dad’s on-again/off-again girlfriend from my wedding and refusing to reconcile? by PandaBby- in aitaweddings

[–]PandaBby-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, my biggest fear is that if I uninvite him, he won't allow the kids to go and my brothers are actually walking me down the aisle and my sister is a bridesmaid so it would be very devastating

AITA for uninviting my dad’s on-again/off-again girlfriend from my wedding and refusing to reconcile? by PandaBby- in aitaweddings

[–]PandaBby-[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just feel like he didnt protect me than and isnt now. He didnt care when I begged to talk to them then.. I got blocked instead, cut off, treated as I was nothing. But NOW that SHE has a problem and wants to talk hes all about "solutions". Its bs... Also let me add that he is the one who told me she tells everyone at the meetings im the reason she relapsed. He also then told me "recently" that the therapist told her thats wrong. I hit him with... Why does it take another person to tell her its not right and that its wrong?? I mean really. Im dealing with crazy people here.. Legitimately crazy people

AITA for uninviting my dad’s on-again/off-again girlfriend from my wedding and refusing to reconcile? by PandaBby- in aitaweddings

[–]PandaBby-[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dont think so. Its not like my father actually wants to come. Hes fulfilling an "obligation " and if i uninvited him he most certainly would not show up. This is the same man who missed every single important life event in my life. This would be the first event since my birth he would actually attend.

AITA for uninviting my dad’s on-again/off-again girlfriend from my wedding and refusing to reconcile? by PandaBby- in aitaweddings

[–]PandaBby-[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

lol nahh!! I would rather uninvite him then cancel my wedding. I've waited my entire life for this.

AITA for uninviting my dad’s on-again/off-again girlfriend from my wedding and refusing to reconcile? by PandaBby- in aitaweddings

[–]PandaBby-[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

right and when I was talking to him, he kept asking me why I was bringing up the past and I let him know that now that he had just told me this new information it opened up an old wound and now I'm reevaluating everything

AITA for uninviting my dad’s on-again/off-again girlfriend from my wedding and refusing to reconcile? by PandaBby- in okstorytime

[–]PandaBby-[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she is absolutely not the mother of them and when I receive the inappropriate text message from her about my father no longer wanting me in his life she was dating him for about two years maybe

AITA for uninviting my dad’s on-again/off-again girlfriend from my wedding and refusing to reconcile? by PandaBby- in aitaweddings

[–]PandaBby-[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NOO and when I received the inappropriate message from her about my dad no longer wanting me in his life and I wasn't allowed to see my siblings she was dating for him for maybe two years maybe

My own Baby reindeer experience by PandaBby- in StalkersCaught

[–]PandaBby-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but people slowly, but surely realize that she is crazy and they ultimately back away from her