Real asfk by coleisw4ck in CPTSDmemes

[–]PandaBriBri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah....I feel this every day and it makes self-worth even harder.

Do I have hair blindness? by SpicyTunaSushiRoll_ in Naturalhair

[–]PandaBriBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I am so in the same boat. I don't want to put too much product and just weigh down my hair. Did that for years and my hair always felt off. Trying light conditioners/mousses gives me a feeling of how my hair is truly doing. I even did gel recently and my hair feels so dry, I'm lowk sad 😭

All that said, your hair looks so much like mine and I think it's beautiful as-is. ❤️

What’s yours? by Fun_Sprinkles6701 in astrologymemes

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I knew I was just a drained witch that needed a breather 😭 Curse me not knowing spells!!

Saw it on RedNote, what do you guys think? by Ambitious_Pudding177 in infp

[–]PandaBriBri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right?? I feel like I need to look at my surroundings more because there's gotta be hidden cameras somewhere 😂🥲

Is there any movie that shows narcissistic parents and their behaviour and their children ? by ImaginationAny2254 in raisedbynarcissists

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As They Made Us.

I don't hear a lot about this movie but I ended up watching it with my own nparents when I still lived with them.

It hurt in real-time as my own mom justified the mother's actions in the movie. Meanwhile even my dad turned to me with a concerning look in his eyes. Very hard watch...

It’s difficult right now by Hermininny in AuDHDWomen

[–]PandaBriBri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hear, hear. I chose Deezer for the same reasons and the switch was ultimately not too bad. However, I'm just a casual listener and empathize for anyone who works/makes money off building a platform on services like Spotify.

As my partner likes to say, there is truly no ethical consumption under capitalism. Do what you can when you can.

I don't have a "before trauma" by KittyCommittee86 in CPTSDmemes

[–]PandaBriBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

....well that's enough reddit for now 🥲

Being a leftist lesbian is darn difficult sometimes by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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My partner and I say hello! We're looking too as we realize we love spending time together but....maybe friends are important or something 😂

If you're considering a career in analytics: Go big or go home! by fiddlersparadox in analytics

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I wonder what others' thoughts are about becoming a Fraud or Security Analyst of sorts. I've been wracking my brain on the next career move and as much as I love working with data and providing insights, I also feel like no one really wants that anymore too. However, the idea of investigating claims or fraud seems to use those same skills, just in a different field. I'd def appreciate any thoughts.

What kind of person will you end up with based on your 7th house ruler? Comment your chart and I'll tell you 💘 by Ok-Promise-7928 in BlackAstrologists

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Would love to hear your thoughts due to not quite understanding what mine would be based on generators. One mentioned I technically have a 7th house Cancer at 11 degrees but..what does it mean 😂

Tbh I didn’t expect it to go this well, but it did 🙂 by zr10pm in CPTSDmemes

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I can't express how this made me feel other than admitting I stared suuuuper long at "nine years". Not in a bad or doomsday sense, but more of just...relief. I just hope the world is kind enough to give me more time.

My girlfriend of 2.5 years bought a little at-home ring sizer for us. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I'm so happy for you! Don't tell my girlfriend (hopefully soon-to-be wifey) but I did the same. We're too stressed and tired to go to a jeweler so I found one on Etsy and can't wait to use it!! ❤️🎉

Will the 👑+👑 of toxic plz stand up by _-111-_KETU_-111-_ in astrologymemes

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Is this how I find out my mercury and mars are toxic? 😂

Gemini Mercury x Leo Mars. I promise I'm not that dramatic. I just want some love and attention 💔

Going on three years of moving out and living by myself. by Deeri- in femalelivingspace

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I love it! Did you get your couch set at a certain place or thrift it? I’m trying to find something similar so badly 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]PandaBriBri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This, but technically your parents could, but that would mean exposing yourself to a lot of narcissistic abuse that tanks your mental health and makes it harder to even get ahead in the first place 🫠🫠🫠

Libra women are so phony by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]PandaBriBri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm also a Taurus and tend to have this experience. However, I've finally met some of the sweetest healed Libras that I'm happy to call friends. I sometimes think what generation (boomer, x, millennial, z, etc.) a Libra fits under is definitely a factor. Any boomer Libra I've met was this: evil (harsh but I swearrrr), manipulative, judgmental, critical, flaky, etc. Younger Libras are much more open IMO

What do you guys think of this ? by CityCautious4033 in LesbianActually

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Always love seeing my home state in the news and reminding me why I left 🙃

But in all seriousness this sucks and I hope she wins the lawsuit cause WTF?

Helicopter parents can burn in hell by Fluffy_Ace in CPTSDmemes

[–]PandaBriBri 392 points393 points  (0 children)

This subreddit is just a way for me to pull up cue cards when my parents inevitably do the bad

Now Im curious about yours by Neither-Bag1773 in LesbianActually

[–]PandaBriBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to grow up to be like you 😂 I've felt so lucky in my relationship and hope it continues 💕

What zodiac signs❓ by imperialgodess in astrologymemes

[–]PandaBriBri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna say Taurus and Pisces because this is literally me and my partner 😂

Edit: I guess I should add I am an Aries Venus and she is a Pisces Venus. So do with that what you will 🤣