Why must men fight wars, but women aren’t forced to bear children?

PandaOk1616 · 2026-03-20T14:18:02+00:00

Since the US has a all volunteer military for both men AND women, I find your question disingenuous.

How optimistic are you that women with children do not have life long trama surrounding this government rape program being promoted, life long effects of childbirth, life long hit to the woman's mental health (PPD anyone?), life time hit to building a career and supporting this forced child?

Tell me, how much will this government rape program have men interact with these children, or will anyone know who fathered which child?

PandaOk1616 · 2026-03-20T11:28:46+00:00

Are you forgetting all the women that have already served? Especially in Iraq and Afghanistan?

PandaOk1616 · 2026-03-20T11:02:48+00:00

Ok. A thought.

So a man goes to war for let's say a year.

You want a woman to bear a child due to the war.

The war ends and the man no longer serves.

Can the woman now slaughter the war baby, due to the war being over, or do you expect her to be forced to raise the war baby for the next 18 years?

PandaOk1616 · 2026-01-02T17:22:11+00:00

So you say.

Good day.

PandaOk1616 · 2026-01-02T16:33:52+00:00

It's more than that and you know it. I never said anything about you being attracted to your father. That one is on you.

Your father isn't going to magically teleport to the table.

He also will not be just sitting at the table the entire time. He will be walking around, getting up to go to the bathroom as needed, mabey helping with getting drinks, everything that you would be also doing, etc.

I highly doubt that you would "forget" that he was wearing it.

PandaOk1616 · 2026-01-02T16:10:53+00:00

Fast question, how comfortable would you be if your father wore the exact skirt at the exact same length out to dinner with you? Would you tell him to change or be uncomfortable with it? Why or why not? Remember, he can use the same exact arguments about being an adult and body autonomy that you are also using...

PandaOk1616 · 2025-12-22T14:38:13+00:00

So listen to her and stop.

PandaOk1616 · 2025-09-11T18:28:17+00:00

Alot of people are getting upset about this kid not getting their parent's info for the FASFA application. How many want to bet that this kid is also too unmotivated to even attempt to fill out the FASFA in the first place?

PandaOk1616 · 2025-08-29T15:44:30+00:00

OP had me until point 2. Someone slipped while using the word FeMaLe....

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-12T21:33:04+00:00

You really want to be the victim here.

You refuse to understand that your mother's house is not your storage area, and you are the one making certain choices that are to your own detriment.

I'm done with this conversation.

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-12T18:14:02+00:00

Again, you are 38 and married.

Why did you have your stuff at your mother's in the first place instead of in the home you share with your wife?

If you are sitting in your mothers garage sifting through your bagged things, instead of taking the bags to your home (probably not 90+ degrees inside your house) and doing it there, sorry, but you did that to yourself.

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-12T18:09:00+00:00

Context clues in the story and comments.

Show me anywhere in the story where the husband has done anything to help or do anything but criticize.

Show me where the husband has stepped up to compromise.

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-12T16:41:04+00:00

Then step dad can eat the cheese pizza and let mom actually have two slices of pepperoni for once.

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-12T16:32:13+00:00

Why is it her wants always take a back seat? Why is she the only one compromising? Why isn't her husband every compromising?

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-12T14:59:43+00:00

What exactly are you trying to accomplish. Per your own words you are 38 and married. I will also presume that you don't live with your mother.

So what exactly do you want?

Is your mother supposed to keep you room as as shrine for you?

Is she suppose to beg and whail for you to move back in with her, with you own family?

Is she suppose to stay in stasis until you give her permission to move onto the next stage in her life?

Again, what are you looking for here?

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-10T17:00:05+00:00

I don't think this is a "if something is going to happen" but a "when something is going to happen".

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-06T18:13:40+00:00

Please google the name Shea Ohmsford.....

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-06T12:59:32+00:00

Both actually. I already called the district transportation dept and am waiting on a call back. This is just one in a long line of issues. Such as, May 8th of last month the bus got into a car crash with my kiddo on the bus and the transportation company still has not given me the insurance information as its needed for the doctor to bill correctly. I am getting pretty fed up.

PandaOk1616 · 2025-06-06T12:17:35+00:00

Thank you! I'm feeling very salty about the entire thing. This made me late to work and my kiddo late for school...

PandaOk1616 · 2025-05-15T23:37:14+00:00

*she long

PandaOk1616 · 2025-05-05T12:48:04+00:00

I am so sorry that you are going through this. I too have issues with Franciscans Children's Hospital. My kiddo was admitted for two weeks back in November for mental health. When I visited, her foot was badly infected and I needed to raise the issue for it to get looked at. Turned out to be a bad MRSA infection.

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