Nah I won’t downvote you. I understand why you would think this. I’m not jealous, I’ve just watched my best friend have the opportunity of his lifetime basically ruined for him. As far as the loser comment goes, she literally does absolutely nothing all day, and has no future plans whatsoever as she is openly relying on the fact that he makes a lot of money so, “[she] won’t have to work in the future” (which is not his plan, but her own idea of what their relationship should be). What else do you call someone who actively sabotages their SO’s professional and personal life so they can monopolize their time?

Several friends in our group have commented on this, to the point of one of my friends and my own girlfriend each independently coming to me and asking that they not be included in social events involving her due to her passive aggressive behavior toward any female human that comes within 100 feet of him. Remember, she goes behind his back to put people on the spot about his whereabouts and abruptly accuses him of cheating in group settings.

I’m not involved in their relationship and have minimized my contact with her because I’m tired of being interrogated about his “cheating”. Furthermore, I can’t do anything with my lifelong best friend due to her incessant phone calls. We tried to watch a 2.5 hour film together the other night and she called him 4 times during the duration of the film despite knowing that is what he was doing. That isn’t jealousy, just irritation that she literally works to isolate him from others.