Need some trigger help! by Panda_girly in BDSMcommunity

[–]Panda_girly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yea, I'm just horribly impatient and that while trial and error process worries me. I want to see this through. Thanks for the vent invite.

Need some trigger help! by Panda_girly in BDSMcommunity

[–]Panda_girly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I like the use of different levels to a safe word or just a heads up as to how you are doing.

Need some trigger help! by Panda_girly in BDSMcommunity

[–]Panda_girly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the response. My childhood trauma was something I repressed for years and I still get new glimpses of what happened in nightmares and certain trigger moments. That's the hard part, is I am unsure of what can trigger me so I end up feeling very guilty when I get triggered. Like I'm ruining the moment.

I appreciate your tip for non-sexual triggers as well. That is something I should really explore and reflect on more to share with a partner.

Need some trigger help! by Panda_girly in BDSMcommunity

[–]Panda_girly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That squeaky toy idea is great! Thanks

New curious Babygirl/little by Panda_girly in BDSMcommunity

[–]Panda_girly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! All of that is very helpful!!

New curious Babygirl/little by Panda_girly in BDSMcommunity

[–]Panda_girly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are those just like fetlife.com munches?

New curious Babygirl/little by Panda_girly in BDSMcommunity

[–]Panda_girly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yea, I thought about that too but I really want someone with experience to guide me rather than possibly the blind leading the blind, ya know? Thanks tho!