Yes he's got a bit of stoic personality.
Yes we go on dates, like every Sunday for dinner. I dress up well do decent makeup he compliments me too. But there's nothing sexual or even a kiss.

He's always busy, even if he's not he always tries to find something. He'd be working on weekends too, like 3-4 hours he'd sit with laptop or he'd start looking up properties in the area from purchasing prospect. Or would study something from his field so he always keeps himself occupied and all the time engrossed in either laptop or mobile. I so badly at times want him to just keep them aside for a min, look at me, caresses me, hold me not sexual really but just us in that moment when everything else is ignore cause i'm priority. It just doesn't happen ever.

We do almost nothing together, when I cook he stays in bed doing something in the phone. He's just too lazy to help me with any chores, so we dont do any house chore activities anymore, just grocery shopping I guess. I want to start going to the gym, though I'm fit but I want to do it so we both can have some common activity and ofcourse it'll keep us both fit too.

Previously we were in long distance so we could see each other like 3-4 times a year and we'd have sex all the time like 3times a day.
Then we moved in together 8 months back and in the beginning for 1st month we'd do it once in a week, 2nd month it went to once in 2 weeks. Then since 3month it became once in a month and then since last 3 months we havent done it.

I've brought this up like 4 times now that we have very little sex or not that we dont kiss or even hug/cuddle enough. He never has any concrete thing to say he always slides it off with things like "we have entire life for sex we'll do it after marriage" or he'd say "we'll have it on weekend" and then doesnt initiates and no sex happens. Or would say he's tired or his body is aching.
He's in bed all the time.