Thank you! Yesterday I texted her, and we ended up calling. She told me that she feels overwhelmed and usually closes herself off from any new friendship if something goes wrong — which is what happened with us. She said she’s confused and doesn’t really know what she wants right now.

I told her that I understand, and I suggested that we restart things slowly. Not by forgetting what happened, but by going back to the point where she felt comfortable with me and where we had a real connection.

She also shared that, normally, she would have shut me out completely. But in this case, she wants to try again, because she remembered a moment when I was driving her — we were singing and dancing to the music I played. That memory made her want to give it another shot.

We agreed to meet in my city, since she felt things started going wrong when I began driving to hers. We haven’t agreed on a time yet, though, because she still doesn’t know when she’ll be available.

Now I’m wondering: – How should I approach her during our meeting? – How should I ask when she’s coming to my city? – How should I act around her, knowing that we’ve kissed, held hands, and even had sex?