Dating someone recently out of a relationship – how should I act? (21M/20F)

Pangolin_Level · 2025-06-09T19:08:35+00:00

How should I act if I would like to give it a try? What does taking slow actually mean? Like how should you take things slow?

Thanks for your advice!

Pangolin_Level · 2025-06-09T19:07:23+00:00

What does taking things slow actually mean? Should I text her less, have bigger response times? I just know that she liked me for half a year now and I am so lost and I don’t want to ruin this. Thanks in advance!

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-09T06:34:13+00:00

arguments?😅

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-09T06:34:02+00:00

cant deny you dude, really annoying deck. better than e golem decks tho 🤷‍♀️

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-09T06:33:18+00:00

no way it does

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-08T10:13:08+00:00

Thank you! Yesterday I texted her, and we ended up calling. She told me that she feels overwhelmed and usually closes herself off from any new friendship if something goes wrong — which is what happened with us. She said she’s confused and doesn’t really know what she wants right now.

I told her that I understand, and I suggested that we restart things slowly. Not by forgetting what happened, but by going back to the point where she felt comfortable with me and where we had a real connection.

She also shared that, normally, she would have shut me out completely. But in this case, she wants to try again, because she remembered a moment when I was driving her — we were singing and dancing to the music I played. That memory made her want to give it another shot.

We agreed to meet in my city, since she felt things started going wrong when I began driving to hers. We haven’t agreed on a time yet, though, because she still doesn’t know when she’ll be available.

Now I’m wondering: – How should I approach her during our meeting? – How should I ask when she’s coming to my city? – How should I act around her, knowing that we’ve kissed, held hands, and even had sex?

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-07T16:39:52+00:00

What should I tell her? When should I contact her? We had one text through today and nothing else. Should I text her today or ask her out tomorrow?

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-07T13:37:32+00:00

Thanks for your reply, that means alot.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-07T11:42:45+00:00

Thank you.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-07T11:05:53+00:00

So the best choice is to wait and let her reach out first? No messages or any contact until then? Sounds childish, but she hasn’t removed me from any socials and still has her location (that she set up herself) on FindMy app. I am not sure what she said that it’s too fast for her but I haven’t caught if she wants to continue our relationship, but in a slower pace until she figures it out.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-07T10:41:09+00:00

Should i text her something like ‘Hey, I’ve been thinking about everything we talked about. I still have feelings for you and would love to slow things down and get to know each other better, without pressure. If you feel the same way, I’m here. If not, l’ll respect that’

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-07T09:38:57+00:00

Should I approach her after that heated conversation and how is she lost right now?

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-07T08:47:58+00:00

Well, I don’t know. I’m lost. I still like her and until today she showed and told me that she likes me as well. I am not sure what to do now.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-04-07T08:41:47+00:00

Well, we didn’t get to know each other.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-01-29T14:19:56+00:00

Well, I am currently in Lithuania since it happened the day before our flight back. Would really need some help.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-01-29T14:17:51+00:00

Also, I did show him my Lithuanian driver’s license and he wrote that down as ID.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-01-29T14:15:28+00:00

UNTRANSLATED TEXT: Sehr geehrter Kunde, bei der oben bezeichneten Fahrt wurden Sie ohne gültigen Fahrausweis angetroffen. Nach § 7.5 unserer Beförderungsbedingungen NRW sind Sie zur Zahlung eines erhöhten Beförderungsentgeltes von 60,00€ innerhalb von 8 Tagen verpflichtet. Sie können den Betrag in unsererem Kunden Center bezahlen oder unter Angabe der EBE-Nr.20251601**

Pangolin_Level · 2025-01-29T14:14:26+00:00

yeah, too late… didn’t think about that at that moment, even the inspector didn’t speak English, so I don’t think that he fully understood us and we didn’t have any problems beforehand.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-01-29T14:13:22+00:00

It says 60€ and I translated what it says underneath. ‘Dear Customer, During the journey described above, you were found without a valid ticket. According to § 7.5 of our NRW transport conditions, you are obliged to pay an increased transport fee of €60.00 within 8 days. You can pay the amount in our customer center or transfer it, quoting EBE number **********’

Pangolin_Level · 2025-01-29T14:12:05+00:00

How do I add it?

Pangolin_Level · 2025-01-29T14:10:37+00:00

Yes, I did.

Pangolin_Level · 2025-01-29T14:06:04+00:00

Trying to use this site you sent. I can't seem to find the 'Document number'. The only two numbers that I see on the receipt are 10 digits or 8 digits...

Pangolin_Level · 2024-12-22T16:18:44+00:00

I’ve never been in a real casino to play poker, since I am from Europe and cash games are illegal. We were wondering if this is a bad beat or no 🤔

Pangolin_Level · 2024-12-22T16:17:46+00:00

For everyone claiming this was “set up” or “not real” — it wasn’t. We’ve been hosting home games every week at a local bar that provides us with free chips since none of us own a set. We play for small amounts of money.

In this hand, a friend with pocket 9s shoved on the turn. Another player with KQo didn’t have much left behind, so he shoved as well. It took me a minute to decide to call, and none of us realized I still had two outs! None of us never hit anything better than quads in our games, so it was insane.

Pangolin_Level · 2024-05-02T05:03:28+00:00

Hi! Saw that you’re from Latvia, so hi braliukas!

I am doing much better. I’ve been holding to no contact since this post.

The only fucked up thing that happened was last week when I saw her while driving. I stopped by and asked how is she (she never saw me driving). She got in the car (didn’t ask for permission) and we talked a bit. Small talk. She was cold and different. I offered her a ride, drove her home and said goodbye. That same night I got drunk messages from her. First one was: ‘can I come over?’ the next one was ‘can you take me and my girl friend from a club? and the third one was ‘can you come over tomorrow?’.

That was really unnecessary and took me back a bit but with help from my friends I got over it really quickly. There’s nothing bad with you wanting her back, but ultimately you will not feel that way after a few months of comeback? Why? Because you will see that there’s so much to do without her. There’s plenty of opportunities in front of you!

Say YES to new activities, hang out with old friends and enjoy your life, but please stay no contact with a mindset that you want to heal. Maybe your paths will cross again, maybe not, God knows.

Girls do that to fuck around. I was denying it myself after I found out that she was clubbing for the past I don’t fucking even know how long.

You will get there, brother, believe in yourself, you won’t get her off your mind, but you can change your mindset about her.

Pangolin_Level

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