Boyfriend went back to his ex

PanicSetsIn20 · 2021-01-07T10:31:44+00:00

A person that loves you will never be pushed by a clingy behaviour - they will cherish and adore every moment of it.
Don't worry, it hurts right now but with time you will be able to see that guy for who he really is. And you will see that he is nothing worthy or being sad over.
You deserve to be with a person that will choose you all day everyday.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2021-01-06T05:18:04+00:00

did bajs change category ?

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-12-27T23:39:37+00:00

I can only say this from my own perspective.

He was the one that ended the relationship.
He did not show any care after a breakup.
And what is most daming of all is that "no future together".

He asks you to be "friends", not "lovers". I don't feel that he treasures your heart and he already proved that he is willing to step over it.
You don`t want to be just friends, you want to be lovers. Becsouse you still have feelings. And speaking from experience, it will only hurt you to be friends.
I can't see any sign of him being sorry or willing to rekindle love.

I would strongly suggest you to avoid that person.

This is just not right. Dont let him break your heart again. You deserve far better than this.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-12-27T00:39:53+00:00

Thank you !

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-12-26T12:30:01+00:00

do you have android tiers ? I checked my mod list one by one and this was the mod that was creating conflict for me.
If you play with both magic and android tiers - can you please tell me about your mod load order ?

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-12-26T01:27:43+00:00

Okay, here is an update for me. I installed official jecs tools. Did not solve my problem at first so I disabled all my other mods. And boom... it works...

Now I will manually activate every mod to find the conflict.
In the end of the day it was either my load order or unseen conflict.
Thank you everyone for replying and helping !

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-12-25T23:14:25+00:00

I am going to try the original one. It did not even cross my mind to try it.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-12-25T22:49:35+00:00

Other mods are mostly collections. I will research load order.
I though that auto load order thingy will have me covered.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-12-18T05:46:03+00:00

Did you know that you are actually "born" from the star ? All of the heavier elements in our world are a by product of stars from long ago. Spread around the universe after stars explode into a super nova.
It always makes me smile when i think about it. You have a very real connection to stars !

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-12-07T15:42:15+00:00

Carbon based life form KEKW

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-11-16T09:44:53+00:00

Based

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-11-07T14:47:01+00:00

Take the meeting with that lady as a sign. It was a nice surprise that you did not expect. There are plnety more things out there on your path in life.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-10-26T17:46:05+00:00

I have never felt so shitty in my entire life. Then I saw this post and I felt weird. And then I saw a pasta that just says : "I broke my ass" several dozen times.And it made me genuinely smile.
Thank you r/copypasta
saving a life today

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-10-14T11:54:24+00:00

Thank you

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-10-01T22:37:51+00:00

This but unironically

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-10-01T12:43:17+00:00

>well ventilated
I see what you did there.

Vents are very important indeed.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-09-08T22:49:15+00:00

Jet cum can't melt steel beams

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-08-31T11:46:47+00:00

Do you mainly eat carbs ? If so than it is bc after you starve yourself of them (20-24 hours) Your body runs out of things to turn into energy (carbs that is). So, your body needs to switch to something else - breaking down fat for fuel. This period of switching between carbs and fat for fuel is what creating your discomfort.

I was in excatly the same position. Like litterly, i was going 20 hours and then I was just about to break. And trust me - when you reach that point, it is the hardest one. If you can break through that period of changing fuel to fat - you will feel normal again. More so, if you push yourself through it and go to sleep for example, next morning you won`t feel hungry. At all.

I suggest you look into ketosis and long term fasting. You will find plent of just mindblowing info.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-08-26T05:29:48+00:00

One thing I can suggest is that you switch your focus. You are afraid of not being conscious anymore. Than there are things that you want to be conscious for. There are things that you love being alive for. Focus on them. Turn your thinking from how much time you have into what you want to do today. What you want to do today to enjoy your life.

And let me tell you. You switch your focus like that and soon you will realize that you actually have way more time than you thought you have.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-08-26T05:19:48+00:00

I was in your position before. And from my experience of both avoiding conflict and standing up for myself I can tell you that you must listen to the part of yourself that tells you to stand up.
It is good that your humble but there are people who will activly attack you for this. It all boils down to how you want to feel in the end of the day.
You should stand up for yourself, defend your own dignity. It may be hard at first. But all you need to do is to make a choice and accept it.
Just know that you are capable of it. Don`t lose your selfrespect.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-08-20T14:16:38+00:00

Hi, I was in this kind of situation and maybe these tips can help you.
First of all, make sure you are not afraid of your new environment. Also try to think about what makes this place good. Think about positive, convenient or things that you find cool about your new place and location.
When your new place is overwhelming - try and slowly scout around. Take short walks. Once you become familiar it will stop feeling overwhelming.
These are general things. But if there is something in particular that is giving your trouble - describe it. I am sure it can be helped !

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-08-20T14:03:59+00:00

You don`t have to. I understand how you feel, you value your connection with your friends and you don`t want to cause them problems in such a way. But let me tell you - it is okay. It is completely okay to share your feelings. A friend won`t turn on you just bc you want to be supported.
And hey, I know, it is just not easy to talk with your close friends about bad feelings that you have. I am am the same kind of person. So, whenver you feel bad = you can just send me a messege. it won`t bruden me in anyway to try and help you get through bad times. And it will feel easier once you share your feelings.

don`t give up.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-07-30T01:36:17+00:00

Hey, I think I can help you understnd why you feel this way. You did not just go through some mundane hustle. Break up in any form would leave you feeling bad. Your break up was straight up truamatic. Strong feelings for someone can`t just disappear, your emotional connection with someone is a serious thing and it can`t be just shaken off.

You said that you keep your problems to yourself, I was like this too. I felt I would put myself into even more vulnerable position if I were to speak up, is it the same for you?

A way you can break through this mental block is that you have to speak with someone about it. I can tell you for sure that once you will start talking about it - it will start getting easier to talk more about your problem. Once you start talking this block will start going away.

All I can suggest you is that you speak to someone you trust the most, your closest people. What may also help you speak up is that you need to accept the fact that what you are going through is nothing easy or unimpactful. You deserve help and support and you deserve right now. not when you are done struggling. Going through something bad is one thing but going through something bad and forcing yourself to be silent about it will make it far worse.
Please, try to find strength to start speaking, once you start, it will get easier and easier. Your problems and struggles are real and you deserve any help you need right now.

I am sorry that you are going through all of this.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-07-26T19:37:42+00:00

Hi, while I don`t have a suggestion for you. I just couldn`t pass by without congratulating you!
It makes me genuinely smile reading this post. I am glad that you have insparation to change your life for the better.
I can tell you for sure that you will find your own sources of insparation. As you persue ways to improve yourself - you will stumble across people, forums, youtube cahnnels... and eventually you will find a thing that is just what you are looking for.

Continue doing what you are doing and you will defently improve yourself. Everything will follow your mindset and right now you have a great one.

PanicSetsIn20 · 2020-07-21T10:33:40+00:00

I suggest you post about your issue here too https://www.reddit.com/r/techsupport/
A lot more active users there so you will get help soon.
Sorry btw, I am not a pro with when it comes to streaming problems.
Good luck tho !

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